It was after using this as a reply in an thread by Phili that I thought it needed some more thought .
I feel some put down SAs too much , suggesting they may not genuinely care because they are only after a sale and nothing more . After talking to many very few work on commission they rely on a basic salary . I have a great time with many and have some fun but we mustn't forget they are human too with their own lives to live some may even be TG themselves or perhaps a partner , close family member or a friend , I have been surprised how many are in this situation . It may explain partly why they are OK with us or on occasions very touchy .
My main point is they play a big and possibly major part in our acceptance . Many stores now fully train their staff in selling to the TG community which means they are more aware of us and maybe understand us more . The knock on effect is they spread that knowledge by chatting to other SAs and customers and obvioulsy provide feedback to management . The ripple effect if you like then extends back through the chain of suppliers and manufactuers . We are seeing larger sizes both in clothes and shoes , we are also seeing more ads featuring crossdressing , they may be beginning to realise the possible size of that market so they are not only supplying the goods but ensuring the staff are trained to deal with it. I guess it's impotant we keep buying off the High Street , we are helping oursleves in gaining recognition and acceptance .
Making a quick reference to the " Transvestite Vs Crossdressers " , thread , some of the old ideas and stigmas mentioned may be disappearing , I wonder eventually if the terms will be used at all !
No matter if we need to shop or want to shop , spare a thought for the SAs , some get small basic salaries , after thirty years of dealing with customers I possibly relate to them more so I treat them with respect and have a bit of fun with them , most now will be working extended hours up until Xmas . Just think could you listen to Xmas music for so many hours everyday without any form of ear protection , I know I couldn't !!