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    connecting with other gay male crossdressers

    Hi all:

    From time to time, I like to reach out to my fellow crossdressers who identify as gay (not bi -- sorry) men in their regular lives. Just wanting to see who's out there! Please holler back

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    I'm still here

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    I am not but I did enjoy companionship with boys when I was eighteen.

    I was always dressed though, otherwise there were no feelings at all.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    We can see that many men have homosexual feelings and experiences but do not want to e classified as gay or even bi. We could settle for 'mostly straight' but for the historical antagonism and fear of gay men- which only reflects the hidden latency in most of us. I think the arguments here happen because we leave out adjectives- as in "I'm not 'totally" gay" , or "really/firmly/definitely...gay, or enjoying being gay". Put more succinctly- " I am in the mainstream!!!!- Don't isolate and hate me" .

    Of course, anyone who actually knows a gay man [i.e. accepted he is gay] knows that he is just a normal person, but psychologically oriented towards men rather than women romantically. A minority of such self declared gay men will also be bi or occasionally enjoy/wonder about exploring sex with women.
    We are all beautiful...!

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    Hi Maya,
    I’m here with you.
    I only acknowledged later in life that I was gay.
    I’m Glad I finally did.

    Rosie

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    Yay! Great to meet you all!
    Some boys just can't help acting like girls...

    My pictures: http://www.flickr.com/photos/mayatoronto/

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    There are times (and Lord knows there are so many!) that I think of becoming involved with a Significant Other to live with. I am now divorced, but a relationship with him/her who cares for a sweet girl like me would be ever so fine.
    It is so difficult to find this, but I know I will keep looking!
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    Maya, I simply wanted to applaud your incredible feminine presentation. Your flicker photos do not depict a female impersonator... you present as a beautiful woman. You should be so proud of your work to create & maintain such a beautiful feminine figure. Your dresses are gorgeous. You are the complete package. Peace, mel

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    agree with Melissa--Maya you are beautiful!

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    While I am not gay, after reviewing your pics on Flickr, it's probably something I should consider.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Donna St. Marten View Post
    While I am not gay, after reviewing your pics on Flickr, it's probably something I should consider.
    Should I be honored?
    Your Roxanne Lanyon
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    I, too, fall into the "confused?" category. I would be quite interested in a feminine partner, or even friend. I would be such a sweet, gentle and caring "gurl."
    Roxanne Lanyon
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    I did have an experience with a man but it wasn't very enjoyable, but it wasn't enfemme. I would try again to see if I really enjoyed it. It's really confusing, i'm not attracted to men but i'm attracted to the man parts.

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    Bi sexual. I love men, I love women, I love being the man with a woman and I love being the woman with another man. Simple right! I’ve even acted and dressed as a woman with another woman. So if we are “name calling” I’m gay straight and lesbian.

    Labels ar silly, get my point. Do what you want with who ever you want and enjoy. Life’s short.

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    Maya, you're gorgeous! Your images show something we can all aspire to.

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    Thanks for the thread Maya I had been wondering something like that for a long time.
    We are a very small number around here.

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    Thank you -- I'm very grateful for all of your compliments!

    Any other gay male cds on here of late?
    Some boys just can't help acting like girls...

    My pictures: http://www.flickr.com/photos/mayatoronto/

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    I agree Maya is very pretty!

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    Hi from Canada!

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    I think this apply
    To Crossdressers. in general.
    I know I personally would like to communicate
    and be friends with others in the CD
    Community , but there is a great amount of fear and uneasiness. .
    Some of it on my part , that causes us to pull back

    JAS

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    I would enjoy being with a man, sometime. I think I could be a really fun date! Oh, I hope so, anyway!
    Roxanne Lanyon
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    I can't give a straight answer, tee hee, I said straight.

    I was gay before I knew I was trans. Then I thought of myself as a gay trans person. Maybe later on as some say on these forums about being a lesbian, I was a straight woman because I was a woman who liked men. But now I don't like either men or women. I don't like sex anymore.
    In solitude where we are least alone. Byron

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    I must say as time goes on and getting serious about my cding more and more turned on by men.always thought i was bi but thinking gay.would love to explore more and see what happens. Tried talking to a few close friends and they all said it would come as no surprise to them. Scary but exciting at the sametime.

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    I'm still here, still gay, still dressing, and still married to a guy who isn't interested in me as a girl. But I'm also OK with all that... being true to myself and open about who I am is such a relief! Hugs to you Maya!!

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    I'm still trying to figure it out lol. I'm married, very attracted to women and I'm generally not attracted to men. But when I'm dressed and love how girly i look and feel, I'd much rather have the attention of a man, and yes I've been with a couple

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