I don’t get tired of being called ma’am, although I would take “miss” if given the choice. Today was out for just a short while, I got two ma’am’s and one “ I can help you down here deary” just minimal make up, carefully brushed wig and a big smile (coral colored today).
Neither do I, love it when that happens. Also I think a big smile exudes confidence and is an important part of your outfit. Go girl!
Michaela
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice. - Rush
Being "ma'amed" always makes me smile.
I got a "young lady" a few weeks ago. We both knew that I was not young, but hearing the "lady" part gave me a boost.
I truly appreciate being called ma'am, it makes me feel like someone cares about me and my feelings.(I may be deluding myself... but, what the hell!)
How do u feel about, "Dude", "Bud", or "Boss"? I get called those in drab and HATE THEM!
I have a mirror so I know I'm a MIAD!
I like it when service people r nice and do their job well. They can call me whatever they want!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
I get it occasionally, from short sighted men mostly. :-)
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
I recently got from a server, 'what can I get you man?"
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
I totally agree with the Doc. Bud, Boss, Mate, Dude and or Pal, are all completely unacceptable at any time.
Whatever you say Slick
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_FL9XOyDPs
Here in the west of Ireland, older service people (and particularly older women) tend to call everyone "love" or "loveen". It just means "you seem nice" and is not gender specific. Nor does it mean they're in love with you LOL.
Last edited by Eemz; 12-05-2018 at 07:20 PM. Reason: howya loveen
I can get behind this 100%. “Pet” names with anyone you don’t know is ALWAYS inappropriate. This goes for GGs too! Please don’t call your SA or server “Honey” or “sweetheart” or “baby”!Originally Posted by docrobbysherry
How do u feel about, "Dude", "Bud", or "Boss"? I get called those in drab and HATE THEM!
I have a mirror so I know I'm a MIAD!
I like it when service people r nice and do their job well. They can call me whatever they want!
When I was out dressed a few weeks ago a man bumped in to me, and in a very Northern English way said 'sorry luv'. Made my day!
Last edited by DIANEF; 12-05-2018 at 07:44 PM.
Here today, gone tomorrow....
That's a GREAT point, Micki. If anyone in my party did that I'd be mortified!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
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