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    Aspiring Member KymG's Avatar
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    How many members?

    Im curious as to how many girls on here are members, how many are guests/lurkers if you like, and how many members are there that havent signed in in years?

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    Isn't Life Grand? AllieSF's Avatar
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    There are currently 380 users online. 55 members and 325 guests

    Most users ever online was 4,772, 11-06-2015 at 11:09 AM.

    That is a copy from a few seconds ago on the main Forum page.

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    dang Allie, give us whiplash !

    I fairly sure you have to be a member to post.

    So if you reply you are a member. You wont get an accurate count because not all member will respond to your post.

    Of course I could be very very wrong.

    Maybe a moderator could answer more accurately
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    Goddess-In-Training Macey's Avatar
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    Well, as of this moment, there are 58 member viewing the site, and about 312 non-members (or members who are not signed in)

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    As of 12/9/2018

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    Impossible to say. I'm a member but never sign in when visiting via my phone or tablet: which is most of the time. No sign in = guest, even if you are a member.

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    Stop that, it's silly.... DIANEF's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by AllieSF View Post
    Most users ever online was 4,772, 11-06-2015 at 11:09 AM..
    I wonder what caused that particular number when the figure is usually so much lower?
    Here today, gone tomorrow....

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    Goddess-In-Training Macey's Avatar
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    I had to go back to pg 272 to be in the area of 11-6-2015, but saw nothing particularly striking in the posts

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    I'm a lurker.
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    I have been a member for a long time, and enjoy finding out new tips from everyone.
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    The 100th sheep GaleWarning's Avatar
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    I seem to remember that something unusual (cyber-technically speaking) occurred on 11-6-2015.
    The figure of 4,772 members online is wildly inaccurate.
    Perhaps Tamara will explain what happened.

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    Kym,

    Questions like this have been raised in the past and as pointed out, lurkers by the very definition can't reply as they're not members.

    Perhaps for the lurkers there should be a questions, and again if I remember correctly this has been asked before, "If you're a guest, a lurker, someone who regularly visits this site but isn't a member, what stops you joining?"

    Now only they can answer within their own minds but from folks who lurked for ages before joining, me included, the reports are that it was fear, fear that if you made yourself in someway visible on these pages then the whole world would discover your secret.

    All I can say to those teetering on the edge of joining is, set those fears to one side. What I and so many others have gained from being part of this community is immense. If nothing else it's gaining the realisation that you belong to an ever growing community of like minded souls. So add your voice to the choir, come sing with us.

    And I know of no-one who's reported that they've been outed from being here.
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    Platinum Member alwayshave's Avatar
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    Kym, is anybody who doesn't sign in going to answer? However, I comment pretty regularly.
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    I think all the lurkers are potentially members and they need to know we don’t bite, or at least too much, ok kidding. Like Helen said, nobody has been outed for being a member.
    Anyone on the edge of joining give yourself a Christmas present and sign up.
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    I visit a few times each week, and post when I think I have something to contribute.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helen_Highwater View Post
    fear that if you made yourself in someway visible on these pages then the whole world would discover your secret.
    Yep. A bit of online paranoia is no harm in this day and age, but no need to go overboard. Create yourself a new email address on outlook.com or similar and use it only for this. You could also use "incognito" mode windows in Chrome to make sure that your login name won't be cached (saved) for the next person using the machine to see. Especially if it's a shared machine, at home or something.

    It's not a lot of protection but you don't really need that much. You're only guarding against accidental disclosure, presumably, not active hacking. A professional could track you down anyway but why bother? There needs to be money in it to make it worth that level of effort. It's much more likely that someone will walk in unexpectedly, or you'll leave the screen on by accident and that could happen anyway

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    Aspiring Member Rayleen's Avatar
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    I log in every week, sometimes just lurk to read. Will post questions from now and then.

    They're probably lots of women reading as guess because of curiosity,,,I work with females and know how they think a bit.
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    Kyme,
    If you do a search of CDing sites you will get an analysis of all the sites , the usage , funding a whole host of information .

    It's always listed on this site how many are active as members and how many visitors are viewing

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    There are many that haven't signed on for quite a while, most seem to move on after a few years.
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    Platinum Blonde member Ressie's Avatar
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    I hardly ever log out yet I don't post as often as the "regulars". I pretty much just check a couple of threads daily and only respond when I have something useful to say - or when I'm just being a smart ass! Yes, I'm a bit lurky.
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    Member LydiaL's Avatar
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    After I sign in as a member, I get kicked off after a spell, which reverts me back to a "guest". Is there a time limit where inactivity causes this? Or perhaps it is just a quirk of my satellite internet connection? in any case, very bothersome. L

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    The number of "members" is artificially high because you cannot "un-join". You are a member forever even after you quit visiting or even die.
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    Aspiring Member LeannS's Avatar
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    Lydia yea there is a time out feature on this site. I know its kinda pain in the backside at times.

    I guess I am strange I always sign in.

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    I lurk and learn. Only on my iPhone lost my password on my computer.

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    Stop that, it's silly.... DIANEF's Avatar
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    You can change your password fairly easily Kirsten, I have had to do it a few times.
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