So I'm 24, and still live at home with my mom. Been crossdressing in private for almost 3 years now I think (I've been doing it for longer than that overall, but she found out when I was younger and I took a few year break from it)

I had made it a new year's resolution this year to tell her about it before the end of the year, but then I lost my job in January, and that kind of put me in a negative headspace that derailed any plans. But now that I'm about to start work again, that specific mental hurdle can be overcome and I want to try and go through with my resolution in these last couple weeks. It'll help to ease my conscience so I don't have to lie to her every time I get a delivery, and I may also be able to lobby for some of the space in the closet in our spare bedroom.

I'm almost certain she already knows and just hasn't mentioned it, I'm just really not sure of the best way to bring it up. Any advice would be appreciated