All my jeans are female jeans and I don't tuck or have a problem. They fit better than men's jeans and since I am a thrift store shopper I find that the womens clothing is in much better conditions that the men's stuff.
Chantal what a person decides to wear on their feet is heir choice. I have sometimes worn ankle boots with a heel just because I felt like it. Maybe not stilettos or something very femme but it depends on my mood