Maybe you wife meant Tommi or Tommie.
Google says: The name Tommi is of English and Finnish origin. The meaning of Tommi is "twin". Female version used as "a twin" to the male Tommy, "acting like her 'twin' in action, speech, strong bond".
Maybe you wife meant Tommi or Tommie.
Google says: The name Tommi is of English and Finnish origin. The meaning of Tommi is "twin". Female version used as "a twin" to the male Tommy, "acting like her 'twin' in action, speech, strong bond".
“Tammy” sounds a heck of a lot like “Tommy”.
Maybe you could use that and get away with it?
When haters hate, I celebrate!
Although divorced, I enjoy being referred to as "Roxanne" always. It just makes me feel oh so sweet!
Roxanne Lanyon
As Sweet As I Can Ever Be
Just being able to go out dressed with your wife is a blessing, baby steps though, I'm sure your wife will become more used to it eventually
your wife is a great support and the name is not at all important.
My femme name has been Tammy Lynn for 40 years even my wife slips and calls me when we are shopping. It is funny watching the look on her face when she realizes what she said. she has called me her Knight In Rusty Armor since we have been together so in public she can call me Kira and nobody is the wiser. It always brings a smile to my face.
In Scotland it would be rare for a woman to be called Jamie - I have never heard of one. Men called James are almost always addressed as Jim or Jamie - and male Jamie is VERY common.
I go to a neuro-psych doctor, sometime in fully femme. Most of the staff have seen me en femme, but whenever I go en femme, I pass a note to the receptionist to call me by Steffi. If someone from the staff calls for [boy name], I just ignore it because it's not my "nom de jour". Eventually, they figure out their "mistake" and call for Steffi.
I'm also kind of fussy about my girl name. When I'm out with the girls, someone may call me Stephanie. I do respond to Stephanie, but also tell them that my name is Steffi.
Hi, I'm Steffi and I'm a crossdresser... And I accept and celebrate both sides of me. Or, maybe I'm gender fluid.