What do ALL Crossdressers have in common? No matter the flavor. No matter how much effort they expend, how much money they put into "it", or how many hours a day they expend thinking about "it". No matter what age they first thought about "it" and/or started doing "it". In the closet (maybe HAPPILY) or not. Told EVERY single person they know about "it" or no one. Ashamed of "it"or proud of "it".
And please, no bickering over definitions of what constitutes CDing.
IMO, what we have in common is far more important than the infinite variety of flavors. "Flavors" on display every single day (literally) in the P&V gallery.