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    Riddle me this...

    What do ALL Crossdressers have in common? No matter the flavor. No matter how much effort they expend, how much money they put into "it", or how many hours a day they expend thinking about "it". No matter what age they first thought about "it" and/or started doing "it". In the closet (maybe HAPPILY) or not. Told EVERY single person they know about "it" or no one. Ashamed of "it"or proud of "it".

    And please, no bickering over definitions of what constitutes CDing.

    IMO, what we have in common is far more important than the infinite variety of flavors. "Flavors" on display every single day (literally) in the P&V gallery.

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    Ok this is an interesting question / post. I'm going to say Panties every crossdresser in every flavor (as you so cleverly but it ) would probably include panties in there crossdressing.

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    Oh! God!

    We all like to wear women's clothes. :-)

    I wish you a Merry Christmas.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    We can't stop without some other adverse psychological effect eventually coming around to bite us in the butt.
    Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
    There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    We all deserve tolerance from the world at large.

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    Well, since all cross dressers are MTF, I would say the one thing we ALL have in common is wearing clothing of the opposite sex. Reasons may vary.
    Mostly a "manly man" but sometimes I really am overcome with an inner desire...

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    A Y in chromosome #23?

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    There are plenty of female "Crossdressers" out there. Especially when you consider all of the dozens of various definitions (OPINIONS) here at this site.None of these are more right or more wrong.

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    We all want acceptance.

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    I’ll play!
    We all need oxygen to survive
    We were all birthed by a woman
    We all live on the same planet

    That’s 3! Do I win?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Micki_Finn View Post
    We were all birthed by a woman
    Trans men can give birth. Get with the times

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    ...we have to learn to cope with small minded people literally everywhere in the real and virtual world?
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    We, despite the social taboo, wear clothing that for the current culture we are in, says should be worn by a different genetic sex. Why? Because it makes us happier for a short time at least. Why it makes us happier is a tougher question.
    That should cover women wearing clothes made for men (not women's pants and jackets) and men wearing kilts or other cultural non-pant clothing.
    We are all humans.
    Hugs, Ellen

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    OK, so I was wrong …
    We all have at least one X gene on our 23rd chromosome.

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    Pnties is a good answer, however I will suggest = the desire to express their female side in some form expressly female

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    Wild...,
    I would personally say but no doubt someone will tell me I'm wrong but we are born wired differently after that I'm not sure what we have in common because we follow slightly different paths .

    I don't think we will ever totally solve the riddle because it's very rarely static .

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    I am thinking this must be a trick question. Let me see if I have this question right...……………..What is it that all crossdressers (regardless of definition) all have in common? Ok here goes...…….My answer is...……….. "we all like to wear clothing judged to be those of a gender opposite to ours. Or maybe we could say that we all have a desire to crossdress. Nah that could be too obvious...…..I am sticking with "this is a trick question" After reading responses from others I have concluded that my answer is not an original thought (appears to be the same as others) so I withdraw my response. I am changing my response to none of us who crosdress really understand (know) why we like it. Final answer.
    Teri Ray Rural Idaho Girl.

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    Someone already got it. It's what every single person who participates at this Forum has in common.

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    Except for the CD fetishists, (panties), and engineers, (clothes of the opposite sex)?

    I'd say we all can come up with stupid replies to mindless posts!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    Hell-o Wild,
    Ellen got it...We’re all humans.

    oooh Sherry! A new diaramma idea?...CDer’s from outer space!

    Much Love,
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    I laugh because there is nothing you can do about it!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ClosetED View Post
    We, despite the social taboo, wear clothing that for the current culture we are in, says should be worn by a different genetic sex. Why? Because it makes us happier for a short time at least. Why it makes us happier is a tougher question.
    That should cover women wearing clothes made for men (not women's pants and jackets) and men wearing kilts or other cultural non-pant clothing.
    We are all humans.
    Hugs, Ellen
    I'll second that...in other words-"what she said"!
    Life's too short to not be enjoyed! Live each day to the fullest!

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    We've all worn at least one article of clothing associated with the opposite sex at least once.
    "You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder

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    There is no riddle! we are what we are just in different ways.
    I started life a lost man now I am a found woman

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    We approve of us.

    That was simple. (I think)
    I don't dress up because I want to be a woman, I dress up to make me happy.

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    I was going to say peanut butter. Am I too far off ?
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