I think you are writing a paper with all these semi personal questions lately LOLOL
I think you are writing a paper with all these semi personal questions lately LOLOL
Looking at the questions, I think I see a method in the apparent madness. It demonstrates the intolerance within the community for those that go out with non-binary presentations even when they are successful at doing so.
- Lydianne.
There is intolerance here but its our job to disregard it and do things the way we want to LOL
My picto story which includes this avatar is posted in the, "Photos", section here now, Krystyn!Originally Posted by Hell on Heels
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
[img]I LOVE ALL OF YOU GIRLS, SO MUCH! Roxanne Lanyon[/img]
As Sweet As I Can Ever Be
TWO THINGS 1 We wear clothes of the opposite gender 2 Once lured into cd'ing you'll always be a cd'er no way to quit
Another commonality has occurred to me, thanks to a phrase in the Australian pop song, 'You're the Voice' by John Farnham.
"... we're all someone's daughter; we're all someone's son."
The song rocks, and is one of my favourites, for all sorts of reasons.
What does everyone here have in common. FEAR. One of these fears.
Fear of losing their job.
Fear of losing family.
Fear of losing friends.
Fear of shopping.
Fear of neighbors.
Fear of not finding a partner that loves them.
Fear of being lonely.
Fear of living life they want
Fear of the unknown and probably many more fears but I can't think anymore cause I'm tired.
In solitude where we are least alone. Byron
We all want to be happy
"What do ALL Crossdressers have in common?" A mindset that we must do 'it.' Damn the torpedoes .....
I think that this post requires some qualification, which I offer.
Many members are happy to be out and about, and have conquered any fears they may have had in the past.
I will agree that we all, at least to begin with, share a need to identify exactly what it is that we fear about our crossdressing, and then face it/them.
But deal with them rationally! Some fears are groundless, in our particular circumstances, and can be discarded, leading to greater freedom. Others may well be valid, at least for the moment, and will only lead to a LOSS of freedom if ignored or needlessly challenged.
Think before you act.
Jenny,
There lies the problem ! Dealing with a very powerful driving force , maybe the bottom line is finding what that force is and where it comes from ? It took me far too long to discover that one . If we could only openly admit we were born like it I'm sure life for many of us might have been a whole lot easier .
Girls,
I am happy as Roxanne. I just want to be accepted! Please?
"Roxanne, A Girl at heart"
As Sweet As I Can Ever Be
I’m not big into panties. Sure I have two pair but never wear them. I tried them but felt.... restricting. I do a bra because of forms but that’s it.
“Hatred only breeds more hatred.” -The Invid Regis
“We are star stuff. We are the universe made manifest... trying to figure itself out”. - Delenn
FWIW........
I once knew a CD who dressed really well, quite feminine in fact.
However she revealed that the one thing she would not wear is panties and she always wore male briefs under all her feminine finery.
I think it was some sort of a physiological thing as she was former navy and she frequently spoke of it.
It seemed that her wearing male briefs was her way assuring herself that she was still male at the core.
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