Obviously this is a question for those of you with a supportive or accepting spouse. I have heard the suggestion if your spouse observes the complete transformation from male to female it can make it easier for her to see it is still her husband underneath all of the makeup, clothing, etc. In my case my accepting spouse has decided she is uncomfortable seeing Danielle because I look so much different than my male self... which I guess I should actually take as a bit of an unintended compliment.
Is your spouse comfortable with the entire transformation or are there certain aspects she would care not to see such as the attachment of breast forms or the tucking process?
Again in my personal experience I made the huge mistake once of opening a dressing gown and revealing a smooth all over naked Danielle with glued on breast forms and a quite convincing tuck. My wife's negative reaction to seeing her husband looking very female left no doubt she would not be interested in seeing how I achieved those results.
As usual I anticipate this will not be a simple yes or no but a wide range of responses as to how much your spouse is comfortable observing or participating in your male to female transformation.
Happy New Year
Danielle