My wife and I are still evolving with accepting my dressing desire. My wife is very supportive in giving me time to dress and has no issues with me underdressing. We both are still uncomfortable with her seeing me fully dressed with wig and make up. Funny thing is she is ok with seeing me dressed in photos. Somehow the seeing me dressed in real time is more intimidating. I am also not sure how comfortable I am with my wife seeing me fully dressed. She has seen me in new outfits without make up and wig. We will take our time in getting to the point of her seeing me dressed, if we ever do.
