I'm a newbie to going public. The first time I came out was a bath by fire. I went to a trans support group party at very public motel bar. The girls in the group were the best. The fire, was they had changed the party from the motel the wife and I were staying at to another motel bar mainly for more room. So my first outing was driving from there to the party in heavy city traffic. Then coming in through a very crowded lobby to the bar! OK all when well. But I'm not what you consider real passable at six foot two. Clocked, clocked I was flagged. LOL. I got a lot of great big smiles from the guys in the lobby. But I know that day is coming in getting called out. Any advice on that? Hugs Rochal