Hello, I just wanted to share an update with regards to my wife and my situation. (Those who read My other post will know I have been struggling recently with strict limiations on dressing).
My wife brought up my dressing today, unprevoked, and said she would be ok with up with me going on a weekend out in another city with other dressers. This is a huge step forward and makes me feel great about the future, as prior to that it was always no to everything.
She even explained that her big fear was me wanting to go out on family days out as Maria (I.E transition) which is not what I want. But importantly she actually thought about it, worked out what scared her and thought of a solution she could cope with.
All this came about from good old fashioned communication, why didn't someone on here say thats all that was needed ;-)
Challenge now is not to get too excited, take it slow and respect her boundaries. Thanks all on here for supporting me recently.
Maria x