Happy New Year to all. This year is going to be a very prosperous year for you, me, and all.
I have a question for all and I'm looking for suggestions and ideas. Here's a bit of background. I've been quite absent from the forum as I've been working with a counselor and my wife. Through many sessions and lots of talking my wife finally understands, for the most part, of what I have and am going through. My wife and I have had some really good conversations and we've made huge positive progress. As we all know us crossdressers have a constant internal battle. That battle of dressing, not dressing, the irritability, the struggle, etc. My wife even asked me if I wanted to take hormones. But after having a long conversation about it we both agreed that with all of our 6 kids, ages 9 to 25, and because of our lifestyle with sports, school, work, social life etc. that hormones is not really an option, at least not right now. But she knows and I know that I need to find some happy medium without going to that far of an extreme is something that I'm searching for and need. She has also asked I know you have people you know and talk to, what do they do? How do they cope. My answer was that they dress at home when they can. Some go out in public dressed on shopping trips. Some get together with other and have girl weekends or trips. But she also asked how do they do it when they have to go to work? How do they do it when they are around other people? Well I've told her and we've talked about it that underdressing is an option and so on. She says yes but I know the struggle is always there and how do you cope with that? I said let me ask the counselor and let me reach out to the forum and see what others have done.
So my question is to you all, what have you done or do that helps you out? Are there hormones that help without making a huge noticeable difference? Is a T-blocker enough and an option? Is an orchiectomy an option? Is just getting away for a weekend enough? Dressing at home enough? What are some things that help you through your everyday life? Just some suggestions and idea responses are appreciated.
Thanks, Nikki