Leonora's thread on having difficulty with the better half prompted me to do a little update.
My wife was very unaccepting at first, but I have taken great steps to include her, slowly and she has been very accepting, but slowly. Her fears were that I was going to run off and ditch her for a guy. Um, nope, just a slightly kinky heterosexual here.
Leonora made a comment of having a school girl outfit....Well a while back my wife and I were up for a bit of a bedroom romp and I asked her to put on her schoolgirl outfit. When I walked into the bedroom wearing a similar school girl outfit, white stockings, high heels, red plaid skirt and white blouse, she about flipped, in a good way! She was quite interested in the easy access of the naughty bits under the skirt! Needless to say we had a good time. (No bra yet, but give it time!)
A while back I was shopping for dresses on Amazon. She walked by and asked if they were for her or me. Some of each I told her. I have since bought a dress, she is aware that I bought it, but not interested in seeing me in it, at least not now.
This brings me up to a week ago. My wife asked what plans I had for Sunday and I told her I had a project I wanted to spend a couple hours on, other than that just rest and relax. She mentioned giving each other a manicure and painting our nails. I didn't expect her to paint mine, but as the day went on I mentioned it, but she just laughed it off.
This weekend ended up much the same so Sunday evening she brought out her manicure tools and told me I had to do her nails first, then she would do mine. Painting them too, I asked? She laughed and said if I really wanted her to she would. She brought out a bottle of clear saying it would just have to come off anyway, and I said nope, something bright and obnoxious so she came out with a bottle of bright red and proceeded to do my finger and toe nails! My toes are still painted, but I don't think my testosterone filled work place would have accepted the red finger nails so that went away late last night right before bedtime.
Last thing before bed I thanked her for painting my nails and participating in my insanity. She gave me a big hug and told me that she loved me no matter what. I think i will keep her!
