I had an interesting visit with my son this last weekend. On sunday i was helping him "11 yrs old" make his lunch and i noticed his toes. Looked like black nail polish. So i commented and told him i used to wear black nail polish in high school. He said it was supposed to be blue so i gtabbed a flashlight and yes they were definately blue and a color i own by the way. Only thing i said was "hey, thays a realy cool color." Ive known for a few years now that he likes to paint his nails with his mom, my ex wife, and yes im cool with it. I also know that both mine and my wifes family have given him crap for it. So i asked him why he didnt do his fingers this time. He said its because everyone is emabarassed by it. So i told him f#@$ them. Its not about them. A couple hours later he gave me a big hug and thanked me for not hating him for his toes. Im not out to my boys but this has realy stuck with me. Im thinking of painting my toes the same color so when hes here on thursday i can show him and say that i liked his so much that i wanted to do mine to.