I feel I am not alone on this...

[Sissy_in_pink]

I too get like that, if I don't have to go out in male mode I can get dressed up straight after a shower and it feels good, but if I do have to go out when I get home it just feels like a chore to get changed, I also live alone and dressing on my own is not very exciting at all, when I do dress I try and go out to the shops or the markets or even the movies and that gives me a good buzz.
Yes, I do go out dressed, I sort of forced myself to do it or I probably would have stopped doing it due to the lack of excitement at doing it at home only.

[suzanne]

The desire to dress comes and goes for me. Some days, it's an absolute imperative that I get into a skirt RIGHT NOW. And some days I feel like "Who am I kidding? I look like hell."

These days, my wife is OK with being in public with me dressed in mostly female clothes, as long as it's not a dress, skirt or heels. That leaves me with maybe yoga pants, plain top, cardigan and wedges. When I can do that, it feels like an acceptable compromise and the need to be in an actual dress relaxes somewhat. So lately, I have less of a problem that the cold weather makes a dress very impractical.

[ShelbyDawn]

First, Welcome. This is a wonderful place full of awesome people and fellowship and a ton of very good advice.

Don't try to force it. Dress when you feel like it and don't when you don't.