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    Doctor appointment

    I have a doctor's appointment this Monday morning. I know I have to take my pants off wondering what color panties I should wear. I wore white last time, I know they don't care and my underwear is the last thing on their mind. I just thought I'd share.

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    Leonora, You will be fine and just go with whatever panties you decide to like that morning.
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    My last Dr appt I had bright red panties on. Wear whatever you want.

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    Yikes! Excellent advice JeanTG

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    What do you think pink, lol it is my favorite panty color. I don't know I may go with one of my light blue pair. There no men color for sure.

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    I would go with pink.

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    When I went, I forgo the underwear, just a nice skirt and top.
    It just saved me the hassle of having to drop my undies
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    Female doctor - colour to match your bra but make sure you have some lace on both. Male doctor - anything will do.
    I hope it is nothing serious, good luck.

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    WOW from JeanTG.
    Now I understand if her wife being upset if you're aroused at the time of the appointment, but is it really "SEXUAL" if your just in normal girl mode

    I mean, this is me, at my doctors, without underwear, do I really look "offensive"?

    As to underwear, 5 minutes after the photo, the Doc and a medical student had stuck a painfully large telescope up my behind, so undies would have only slowed down their examination and there's nothing SEXUAL about that procedure (not for me anyway).

    Imagine a Doctor, who is offended by the naked body, how would they ever examine a boil on the butt???

    The next visit, I had to be totally naked - surely that's way "more offensive" than clothed in a skirt? (like the photo but with no clothes at all, or wig, or shoes)

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    note: photo was taken at public hospital, not a private practice.

    But here's the real rip... As individuals, we CHOSE what offends us, nobody can actually offend you unless you give them permission to do so
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rachelakld View Post
    WOW from JeanTG.
    Now I understand if her wife being upset if you're aroused at the time of the appointment, but is it really "SEXUAL" if your just in normal girl mode
    Yes but you are presenting female. It is reasonable for a doctor that doesn't know you, say a specialist, to simply assume you are in transition and this is your *normal* presentation. I mentioned in my reply "unless you are in transition". I don't know what your relationship is with your GP and if (s)he knows you are TG or not.

    My point was in response to the OP: "what panties should I wear to my doctor visit". I may be reading this wrong but it sounds like there's a degree of *wanting* to show the doctor you wear panties. This, IMHO, is what is wrong, and what I can guarantee, a female physician in particular, doesn't like. Obviously in an emergency you are wearing what you are wearing, but if you have a doctor's appointment planned in advance, please wear drab underwear, or if you don't have any, something plain in a neutral colour like black, grey or white.

    Again, if you are transitioning, or you live your life presenting as female, it's a different matter.

    Also, don't make the assumption that if your doctor's visit is to check your throat (s)he wont want to look at other things, as happened with the neurologist above. Don't be surprised at a "when was the last time you had your prostate checked"? I am diabetic and one day it was "today I'm going to check your feet as part of diabetic foot care". Good thing I had taken off my toenail polish...

    Always keep in mind that doctors, while professionals, are also human beings. And women, whether a doctor or not, see things differently than men and are *very* sensitive to any hints of sexual inappropriateness in the examining room. We may not think that our proclivity to wear women's underwear is sexual, but the doctor may not be all that aware of trans matters. They typically don't see that many of us unless in a practice oriented towards transgender care! For may doctors, especially small-town GPs, transgenders are a curiosity in a textbook that they may see once or twice in their practice over their whole career.

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    As for Tammie, your story makes my head spin. Completely uncertain about what was just added to this conversation but in all honesty, it reads like fantasy fiction.
    Honestly, I'm with you Sara, I call BS on that story. It also makes no sense from a medical standpoint. The last thing an endocrinologist will check before prescribing HRT is what is down below, other than maybe doing a cursory all-over physical. It's the lab work that the endo will be most interested in. And a gynecologist is not where a TS goes for HRT. That is simply not their bailiwick and a pre-op TS most certainly does not need a "FULL FEMALE EXAM", she needs blood work to determine testosterone levels to prescribe blockers, and liver function tests and other endo tests to rule out contraindications for HRT. About the only interaction a gynecologist may have with someone TS, is someone already on HRT who needs a mammogram, which TS women with breast development should get.
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    Rachel,
    I must admit that procedure does wipe the smile off your face , I had to strip and wear a surgical gown anyway . While I won't go into details the examination does leave the bowels a little loose , so it's best not to wear your Sunday best .

    Jean ,
    Thanks for posting your honest reply , I agree perhaps it should be made a sticky , we should treat doctors with respect . I wonder how we would feel if the role was reversed .

    Liz,
    I've donated blood three times now dressed , the only problem the first time was I was wearing a skirt , ( in fact the only one of twenty in the waiting area ) and the screening nurse called my full male name out , yes it did raise a few eyebrows . I've now officially changed it to the shortend form so it's female combatible .

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    Probably the only thing I now do in drab.

    I am fortunate I only go every six months to renew a prescription any way.
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    Leonora,
    It depends what the medical apointment is for , I would be more concerned with tucking well than the colour I wore not unless it's the parts between your legs that are the subject of the appointment . Would it solve the problem by wearing a skirt and thigh highs .

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    It more of a follow up visit if anything but he checking my bum bum so I will have to strip from the waist down.

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    I have gone to my last couple of appointments in a skort, feels very comfortable going that way.

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    Rachel, there is quite a difference between walking into a doctor's office presenting as a female and going into an examination presenting as male in anticipation of a panty reveal. Your presentation disarms the staff and in the event they perceive you as trans-whatever rather than female, they can make fair assumptions going into the exam about you as a person. Even better if they know you as a regular patient, they might have an understanding that you are transitioning or a crossdresser or somewhere in between. Bottom line, I don't think anyone here is questioning whether someone who presents much/most/all of the time as a female for whatever reason should present as such to their physician unless there are less than sincere reasons for doing so.


    As for Tammie, your story makes my head spin. Completely uncertain about what was just added to this conversation but in all honesty, it reads like fantasy fiction.
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    Oh it really should be pink and lace.
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    Leonora, Whatever you decide to go with you will have to come back and let us know.
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    What about one of these?IMG_20190210_100014.jpg

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    Leonora, Nice choices! I like them all!
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    Seems like exhibitionist tendencies when writing on an internet forum about what color panties to choose for a doctor visit. Why is it important to you for your doctor to know you wear panties?
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    It not like I said in the beginning I know they don't care. I was just having fun with a post just to get other members reaction. I have to undress before the doctor comes in the room anyway. But I was just doing the post for fun.

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    Leonora hun,

    Match the panties to your toe nails, Pink is of course my favorite.
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