I consider myself to be one of the very fortunate ones. I have a wonderful SO/wife that loves me for who I am. With all my warts and all. So I say to all be thankful for your loved ones. I decided to go out in semi dress (underdressed with Mom jeans) to get some roses for the love of my life. She is one in a million, so fortunate that we found each other so many years ago, and stuck around after finding out about my femme side. I wanted to get a dozen roses for her. So glad that she is mine!