I started coming out to my adult children then female friends and eventually male friends starting in 2015. It was slow at first but has picked up momentum in the last year. Not once has anybody done anything except scream with joy, give amazing and loving feedback, or been incredibly supportive. Mind you, I’ve picked my battles very carefully and only been open to those I truly trust but I kind of feel like I’ve lost any potential control of the situation. However, I’m not sure I care. The people I’ve come out to have been so amazing and they are really all I care about. I’m not out to any family except my female cousin who is a makeup artist and has helped me with makeovers. She is awesome. My hairdresser is awesome as are my lady friends. I could not have done this a few years ago when I was married and my kids were younger but now, I love my life. I get to wear whatever I want when I’m with my friends and they don’t care. It’s not an issue.
For those of you holding back, trust your instincts and share with those you trust. Chances are they will support you and you can live your best life.
Hugs,
Deedee