Danielle: Speaking to you only, I suggest a way to help with your fears of being dressed in front of your wife. She may give you permission Saturday to do whatever you like, but that will only add fear on top of your fear. Go slow for your sake. Maybe start with wearing ladies jeans around the house, while under dressed. When your comfort level has begun to rise add additional clothing, such as bra and blouse. Next put on a pair of flats. Keep doing those type things until the nerves settle and one day you can dress and look like you stepped right out of a Sears Catalog.
