I'd reached a point that I don't spend too much time as a male. Between wife and me the closet is mostly women's clothes. Even in male I wear women's clothes that look androgynous, shoes, pants, shirts etc. Last weekend we went to a birthday party from an old friend and just religious people and wife ask to dress as a man, that day I feel like when I was crossdresser, uncomfortable with the feeling that people would notice I'm a woman in men's clothes and that happened.
A very close friend, which we were waiting a good opportunity to share that I'm a trasgender, come to me an ask me what has happened to me. He showed me a pic of myself from 4 years ago and told me you're not longer that gay, you look more like a woman so please don't offend you if I ask you, are you transitioning?
The rest of the history for someone that has been a real friend. I had to apologize because wife didn't want to tell him yet and he told me, you look weird dressed like that.
