Hello All,
My female persona is that little voice inside my head who has been driving me crazy the over the last few years. She lied dormant for nearly thirty years and around the time I hit 50 she started to wake up. She wasn’t so bad at first but she gradually picked up the pace and she is now in the forefront of my mind. It doesn’t take much to set her off … the staccato click of high heels, the sight of a nicely dressed woman, etc …. Really gets her going and makes me think “I bet that outfit would look good on me.” or “gawd I really need get my nails done just like hers.” or “I bet those earrings would feel nice dangling (if I only had pierced ears).” I realized that I have been observing women from the point of wanting to be them so much that I know exactly why women love shoes so much (scary).
So a few days ago I finally joined this group so that I can try to get to know and understand that woman inside me. She has always been a part of me and it’s time I got to know Robin. Once I joined, I realized that this was the best thing I could have done. You all have been so welcoming, supportive and understanding. As I have been replying to threads and in writing this post, Robin is beginning to come to life. She has a voice and I’m a much happier girl.
I am searching for ideas on subtle ways that would help me feel more feminine. So any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you all so much,
Robin