I always go to my holiday home a few days before my other, she knows i dress (not a problem), but not in front of her, anyway, things are slowly, very slowly progressing. So today we decided to go to the holiday tomorrow, She said, no problem, you can go up with me instead of a few days earlier on your own, you can dress , The her words where "I Dont care do it", I said fine, being very uncomfotable about dressing in her pressence, especially makeup. Well my daughter got back and rang us saying whoops I thing I didnt lock the sliding doors on the front. So ok I siad I would drive up now, lock it, and you join me tomorrow. So far no problem, I got to the holiday home, rang my other and said am here now, all ok, see you tomorrow, can I get changed now or wait till tomorrow, relpy was, not sure wait and see. So many mixed messages !!!!!!, am gonna blow a gasket soon, shes gonna has to accept me or leave me. I know what I am told her before marriage 20 years ago, thing ive been patienced enough !!!! Accept or not !!!!, been playing this games for two many years now in her favour.