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    mini kilted chick t-girlxsophie's Avatar
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    In the beginning i met up with other girls purely to dress together.But now that I get out a lot more dressed,The only time my friends and I will meet up and dress is at a hotel but that isvbasically as a starting off point for a night out on the town,and its just like any other females getting ready to go out

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    I don't "play" at this. It's part of me and my life.
    I don't want to play dress up with others. While I do enjoy meeting others and sharing tips, experiences and such I not interested in that.

    If some wish to get together and go shopping, out to a restaurant, have a card game or a BBQ then I'm all in.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lindseynrva View Post
    ... unlike real women most of us never go shopping with others.
    Speak for yourself!!!
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    As a newbie to cross dressing I think dressing with others might be a nice way to learn about make-up, wigs and how to walk in high heels. I doubt I will ever get the last one down.

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    Exclamation Ok, liteweights! Let a real pro take this one!

    "Playing dress up" isn't something I do, it's who I am!

    Sherry has never been about presenting as me, but the near opposite! Presenting as the women I find interesting and attractive. Every single one of them!

    But, past that, I'm also quite experienced meeting other dressers in person and online. Here's what I've learned:

    Unless they r rank beginners, or r NOT able to dress at home, most dressers prefer to dress alone. Because after u learn how to do what works for u, having strangers, with or without dressing experience around, is simply a distraction!

    Dressers that like to "play dress up" with others tend to really mean, "dress off"! Because they r gay/bi, or r straight, but suddenly like male parts when they dress!

    I had such an experience when I first came out. We shot some very sexy, nude, Sherry story pix. And, it was fun and went quite well at first. But, seeing me as a naked female in my suit became too much for her and she came on to me. Politely and gently. But, I couldn't continue knowing what she was thinking!

    Since then, I've done a few shoots with women who met me as Sherry and agreed to do shoots with me! I have platonic relationships with all of them. Which works best so we concentrate entirely on the story lines in our shoots. And, not me on them, or them on me!
    I posted a pic from one of our shoots below.

    I strongly feel dressing up with anyone you're not very familiar with to be a bad idea. Unless u r open to the both of u ending up naked together!

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    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

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    At my favorite dress shop, playing dress up was practically a requirement for me for years. The SAs quickly took a liking to me, to the point of arguing over who got to help me the next time I came in the store and bring mopy whenever they heard they missed a visit from me. They would ask me to try on practically everything in the store, just to see how it looked on me. And how could I refuse? It was a total thrill and I learned what looks good on me and why, and I had a lot of pleasant surprises that encouraged me to expand my comfort zone with colors. I now know my best color is pink, which I probably wouldn't have gone near without their encouragement.

    Sadly, those particular ladies have gone their separate ways and I see them only sporadically. But the store, actually a chain, still stands and I am known in most of them. But the dress up sessions have dried up some.

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    No, I never have, although I have dressed or been dressed around a few women friends of mine. There wasn't anything sexual to it at all. Usually it was just hanging out together sharing a drink, or a bottle of wine and good conversation.

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    We're all kind of playing dress up in a way aren't we? When I get together with other CDs (meetings and outings) we all notice how each other is dressed, what each other is wearing, makeup, wig, jewelry. Sometimes one of us needs a little help with something or someone might have a question. We exchange tips just the way tips are shared in this forum. Complimenting each other isn't uncommon. We enjoy each others' company and the freedom of being en femme.

    Lindsey, it sounds like you just haven't made any RL connections with other CDs yet.
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