To honour or disrespectful

[Pixie_94]

Bad idea.

[Lydianne]

I remember once having a similar closet discussion about visiting a grandparent's grave. Going to the grave, cleaning the stone, clearing the weeds, laying fresh flowers, etc.. but doing it en femme. You know your parents would be against your dressing based on their anti-LGBT comments in other contexts and their religious & traditional standpoints, and in all likelihood, your grandparents would have been even more so, and therefore more likely to be anti-you.

So I raised the question whether going to clean up their grave en femme is respectful or disrespectful. I remained on the fence about them, but I did say I would be uncomfortable doing it myself.

( I write this just as an interesting parallel and not for response because this is not my thread ).
- Lydianne.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Donna , Quick, See line #4 in my Signature. >Orchid ...+..