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    are there any females that like crossdressers

    I was wondering - as I

    I am a straight guy - always have been - always will be but I luv luv luv to xdress and dress up , in general especially hosiery and heels

    My question is simple - are there any females around that actually like and are happy to date xdressers
    I have never ever in my entire life found one you see awww - hence my question


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    Senior Member Tracy Irving's Avatar
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    Lots of people on this rock. There are probably one or two, maybe more.

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    Twisted Sister Patience's Avatar
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    The question is not “where”, but “when”.
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    When all else fails, lower your standards.

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    Well my wife married me full in the knowledge I was a Crossdresser,so there's one

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    Same with ME. My Wife knew that I liked to wear Female clothes while we where dating.
    And we did get Married, One rule was, Do not go out of the house dressed; As to not to
    embarrass her. So I could live with that.

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    yes there are...I had a ex co-worked that loved me dressed and I also have a long distance girlfriend that can't wait to see me in person

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    Somewhere in-between. Krea's Avatar
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    Yes, there are some, but they seem to be very rare....
    "Welcome to my scene.
    A place that's in-between.
    Where the squares fit the rounds."
    (Lyrics by Queensryche)

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    My wife knows and fully encourages it more than me some times

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    Silver Member Crissy 107's Avatar
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    Not all that many that I know of. My wife used to be much more accepting but then not so much. She is more tolerant then anything unfortunately.

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    Hey, Nylon .. where have you been the past 6 years? Your question has been explored many times! (grin)

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    Aspiring Member Pumped's Avatar
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    My wife was unaccepting at first, but she encourages me from time to time. The other day she told me me I need a new skirt for my birthday.

    She has come a long way in a short few years.

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    Hi Nylon45 , I am sure that there out there but I haven't found one yet. >Orchid.oOOo.
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    Don’t be discouraged. I’ve had mixed results with women. Actually I met more women interested in a guy who cross dresses than a trans woman. But I’m early in transition so I imagine my body would still be challenging for a lesbian to be attracted to.

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    Weirdest woman ever! docrobbysherry's Avatar
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    If u believe in unicorns? Then, yes!

    But, yesterday reinforced to me how many women r intrigued with us! As I was approached by a number of women, young and old, when I put on my mermaid tail at the pool at a Vegas hotel/casino!

    And, later that nite at a hotel club. One woman was quite taken with me after seeing photos of Sherry. But, I don't think to the extent of dating!
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    Silver Member Micki_Finn's Avatar
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    Simple answer. Any? Definitely. Many? No. Also, the subset of women who actually find it “sexy”, “erotic”, or “attractive” is even smaller than that of women who tolerate it, or like it on a platonic level.

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    Senior Member Majella St Gerard's Avatar
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    few and far between.

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    Member Becoming Brianna's Avatar
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    Well my experience with my ex and now my (one day so admittedly short) foray into online dating seems to indicate that dating life sucks for CDs\early stage transitioners who are attracted to women... It's done wonders for my self-esteem...

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    Gold Member alwayshave's Avatar
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    My wife is accepting, but I'm sure she would prefer I didn't cross dress.
    Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".

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    1.#QNaN Lydianne's Avatar
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    I'd imagine that some would-be accepting females are in relationships with cis-guys.

    - Lydianne.

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    Senior Member Robin777's Avatar
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    My wife married me knowing that I dressed. We go clothing shopping together,and she has put up with me going on 40 years.

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    Platinum Member Beverley Sims's Avatar
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    They are out there but few and far between.

    Strike up a friendship with some girls, they may like to dress you up and when they do one may become attracted to you.

    It is more likely that way once they get to know you you become a friend of the group for starters.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    Super Moderator DAVIDA's Avatar
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    Short answer, yes.
    My wife really doesn't care one way or the other. She just wants me to be me and happy.
    She knew before we were married too.
    I have been told that I need to go put something on, dress or skirt wise.
    My daughter doesn't care either. Before she got married and moved, we used to go shopping all the time.
    I really miss those times together. She still sends me things she has bought for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lydianne View Post
    I'd imagine that some would-be accepting females are in relationships with cis-guys.
    Accepting, vs actually interested in, are two entirely different things. Women are 'accepting' of gay men, too. But that doesn't make them potential romantic mates.
    Quote Originally Posted by Micki_Finn View Post
    Simple answer. Any? Definitely. Many? No. Also, the subset of women who actually find it “sexy”, “erotic”, or “attractive” is even smaller than that of women who tolerate it, or like it on a platonic level.
    Feminine sexuality in men is generally not a turn on for heterosexual women; It's more like a turn off for most.
    Quote Originally Posted by Beverley Sims View Post
    They are out there but few and far between. Strike up a friendship with some girls, they may like to dress you up and when they do one may become attracted to you. It is more likely that way once they get to know you you become a friend of the group for starters.
    There aren't a whole lot of women who yearn to dress up their male friends as girls, and are then sexually attracted to them. Playful dressing you up might occur, same as women play around with adorning a gay male friend with a feather boa, some lipstick, a frilly jacket, or fooling around asking if he thinks a particular purse goes with his shoes (I've personally seen this behavior by straight women with a gay male coworker).
    Winding up in a permanent 'friend zone' is more likely.

    There ARE some women that are attracted to crossdressers. However, finding them is almost impossible. Why? Well, having an openly crossdressing husband is hardly something to be proud of among women. It's sort of an exact opposite of a status symbol. Women show off their successful, high status male mates to other women, not the opposite. To admit that they are turned on by a fem guy, would even invite the questions from other women about whether they might be harboring lesbian feelings; much the same as if, say, a man proudly admitted that he liked the idea of his wife wearing a man style haircut, wearing a fake mustache, and wearing a men's suit, shoes, and behaved as a man.

    I've run personal ads for decades, with virtually zero responses when I've mentioned crossdressing (other than from prostitutes, doms and men).

    Good luck, Nylon45, you're going to need it. May as well buy some lottery tickets while you're at it, the odds are about the same.

    The best advice I've gotten, was to go out of your way to befriend gay women, and get them to take you along to female gay bars. There you just might find a woman that will find you intriguing enough to approach you. But you'll have to be dressed in your girl clothes, and, perhaps just as importantly, probably have to look good that way in order to be considered socially acceptable there. For example: I, all six foot four and 280 pounds of me, wearing any sort of female outfit & wig, would probably be considered sarcastically poking fun at how women look, not appreciatively emulating them out of admiration. So if you're a cute feminine crossdresser, at least you have that going for you.
    Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:
    There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    Emerging Diva Nikki A.'s Avatar
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    There are some but it is rare. Many more females may be friends but not want to be in a relationship

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    Silver Member ClosetED's Avatar
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    I do recall a few on this site who truly like a man who crossdresses. But most don’t stay here long. There are other sites devoted to date a crossdresser
    Hugs, Ellen

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