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    are there any females that like crossdressers

    I was wondering - as I do....lol

    I am a straight guy - always have been - always will be but I luv luv luv to xdress and dress up , in general especially hosiery and heels

    My question is simple - are there any females around that actually like and are happy to date xdressers
    I have never ever in my entire life found one you see awww - hence my question

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    Lots of people on this rock. There are probably one or two, maybe more.

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    Well my wife married me full in the knowledge I was a Crossdresser,so there's one

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    Same with ME. My Wife knew that I liked to wear Female clothes while we where dating.
    And we did get Married, One rule was, Do not go out of the house dressed; As to not to
    embarrass her. So I could live with that.
    Rader

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    yes there are...I had a ex co-worked that loved me dressed and I also have a long distance girlfriend that can't wait to see me in person

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    Yes, there are some, but they seem to be very rare....
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    I guess the simple answer is yes.

    My life is just so surreal sometimes, and I just can't handle it. About three years ago a friend of mine hit on me. I just wasn't ready, I had only been separated from my wife for a short time. That and she has enough drama in her life. Yes we are still friends and yes I could still date her, but I still think I made the right decision for everyone.

    A year ago last New Year’s I was dating a women and she asked me to marry her. It didn’t work.

    No worries I have a boyfriend.

    So the real question is how do you get someone to look past the packaging and see the person within?

    Then you have to be ready for what follows, a relationship.

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    Maybe we are tending to lump all
    women together. .
    I have found levels of acceptance vary widely even within groups
    It totally depends on the individual .
    And your effort in getting to know the individual
    To me the best relationships start with being friends

    JAS

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    Thanks for all your advice and experiences - It was refreshing in some ways and sad in other's to read all your replies
    I have pretty much accepted now - that if I continue to dress up (which is 99.9% likely....lol) I am not going to be in what I would call a loving , normal relationship with a straight lady

    I may have to try to hide it and hope that in the future , I do , actually , meet a woman who could possibly accept it

    Failing that , maybe , I could say , I only want to wear Pantyhose/Stockings/Nylon and hope that works instead !

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    I don't believe all hope is lost.


    While the deck may be stacked against you, that's not to say that you're destined to be alone for the rest of your life, either.

    It is certainly possible to find a GG who *is* cool with it all, or at least to some degree.


    But it's not entirely on her, of course. How the CD'ing plays a role in your life is also a factor.

    For example, if you have this frequent need to get completely dolled-up (and I'm talking like *everything*) & head out into the world on a regular basis? Your chances will probably go way down.


    However... If you're genuinely content with omitting a lot of things in a certain vein, it may not be so bad.

    Do you *truly* need the make-up? The wig? The fake boobs & hips? The fake nails? The perfume? All that kind of stuff?

    Or, are you able to incorporate the dressing, perhaps as GG's do with men's clothes? (And yes, despite what some may claim, that happens quite often with them, especially with the younger crowd.)


    If you can "guy-mode" it, and still have it look pretty good/natural? Then you're probably opening up that door that much wider.


    Personally, these days I look like I do in my avatar, only once in a blue moon. While I do own a wig & some make-up, very rarely are they worn. And even then, it's nothing else... Just the clothing from the GG-side that I wear in guy-mode. None of the other extra frills mentioned above. And I do keep it behind closed doors these days (the past is a different story ).

    I don't know how "deep" you go with the CD'ing, but have you tried experimenting with your presentation? For example, if you tend to stick with short femmy dresses, hose & heels, why not mix it up a bit? How about leggings, a hoodie & running shoes, instead? Or, even mix & match from your women's & men's wardrobes? Heck, there are times when I'll simply wear all men's clothes, except for some no-show socks & a pair of GG running shoes with a good amount of hot-pink in them.


    Am I presenting as a woman when I do this? Nope. I look like a guy. (Some may say perhaps a bit of a "swishy" one, but whatever.) But the fact remains: I'm looking like a guy, no mistake about that.

    And I do believe more GG's may be more receptive to that, relatively speaking. You're basically casting a wider net, than you would if you were going "full out."


    Anyway, you mention that you enjoy wearing hose/tights (hopefully with shaved legs?). I know of guys out there who do wear these, in public, at that -- yet everything else is from the men's department. Does it work for them? Yep. They just happen to really like them -- just as some GG's do. So, they wear 'em! Oftentimes with shorts. If that's their thing, then all is good.

    Like I said, there's nothing wrong with experimenting with one's presentation. The possibilities are almost endless. It doesn't have to be either full-blown guy, or full-blown female. A GG may be genuinely fine with you wearing women's leggings, for example (even if it's just around the house). A bit out of the ordinary, sure... But perhaps much more acceptable & understandable, than, say, going the whole 9 yards in the full female get-up.


    Hope that helps a bit!

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    Quote Originally Posted by nylon45 View Post
    Failing that , maybe , I could say , I only want to wear Pantyhose/Stockings/Nylon and hope that works instead !
    I think perhaps the best option to take, would be to introduce the topic gradually, such as by eventually introducing a crossdresser movie, or watching Rupaul's 'Drag race' TV show or something like it. Then mention something along the lines of, 'You know, I USED to crossdress too', and see how she takes that, the key words being 'USED TO', getting you off the hook if it's a completely negative response, you can always backtrack and deny that you do it anymore, and then decide if you wish to keep seeing her and remain in the closet to see if she changes her attitude over time, or if you need to jettison her from your life if she seems completely horrified at the idea. Or maybe somewhere in the middle, she may be okay with it but then say she wouldn't want to pursue anything romantic, but would still be interested in being your friend.
    Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
    There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    I told my wife before we married tried to make compromises .Did not work in the end 15 years of marriage down the drain .She told my daughter last summer and my daughter told me she was very cool with it but we did not talk about it.It is still awkward because we have not spoken about this hopefully we can sooner than later
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    My wife knows and fully encourages it more than me some times

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    Not all that many that I know of. My wife used to be much more accepting but then not so much. She is more tolerant then anything unfortunately.
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    Hey, Nylon .. where have you been the past 6 years? Your question has been explored many times! (grin)

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    My wife was unaccepting at first, but she encourages me from time to time. The other day she told me me I need a new skirt for my birthday.

    She has come a long way in a short few years.

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    Hi Nylon45 , I am sure that there out there but I haven't found one yet. >Orchid.oOOo.
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    Wife knew about my pantyhose fetish when we married. She has fully accepted my other side, and encourages my dressing up. For now, it stays in the house. But we have talked about going to one of the TG conferences, and dressing up in another place. We have talked about gender and sexuality a lot and both realize there is a huge non binary spectrum, and society has forced upon us a very narrow view.
    But she is concerned with preserving our privacy and how society views my cding.

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    I am coming up to 78 y/o and very passable. My wife cannot stand seeing me dressed. I do not see her for months on end as she is away looking after her 90+ year old parents. I normally go out at night, but have wanted to go out during daylight. So I have a female neighbour who is always out and about browsing around charity shops. About 3 months age I went round for coffee (as you do) and said that I would like to come with her on her trips. But I said that I would be coming as a woman. Yes, so, I do not have a problem with that. If any of you are thinking about it and you know someone that you can trust with your secret then go for it. And you will not regret it, especially mixing with other females in the shops.

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    Don’t be discouraged. I’ve had mixed results with women. Actually I met more women interested in a guy who cross dresses than a trans woman. But I’m early in transition so I imagine my body would still be challenging for a lesbian to be attracted to.

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    If u believe in unicorns? Then, yes!

    But, yesterday reinforced to me how many women r intrigued with us! As I was approached by a number of women, young and old, when I put on my mermaid tail at the pool at a Vegas hotel/casino!

    And, later that nite at a hotel club. One woman was quite taken with me after seeing photos of Sherry. But, I don't think to the extent of dating!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    Simple answer. Any? Definitely. Many? No. Also, the subset of women who actually find it “sexy”, “erotic”, or “attractive” is even smaller than that of women who tolerate it, or like it on a platonic level.

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    I met my now wife when i was in girl mode. We've been married for going on 5 years.

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    My girlfriend support me. the girlfriends i had before, only 3 knows i crossdress, and only one didn´t like it (the others 2 was very supportive, buying clothes, do my make up, dress me, etc). i only told them after they live with me.

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