I have a *strict* DADT relationship with my wife. She hasn't seen me dressed, seen my dresses, or even seen pictures of me dressed. I have no expectation of that ever changing, so I dress to please myself. My taste in clothes is a little eclectic, with bold florals, bright colors and clothes that are intended for someone much younger. I'm 5'9", a size 12 to 14 in a dress and a size 10 to 12 in jeans and skirts, so I'm about average, or maybe a little smaller than the average GG my age.
I love complements and get a lot of complements from TG friends, and sometimes even a random GG. I always try to be well put together, but I still dress for me.