but I was a little at a loss of what to feel or what to do or say if anything. I just left my usual morning coffee shop and a while before I was getting ready to leave I observed a young man 30+ (young to me anyway) -long blond ponytail, very nice scoop neck colorful blouse, leggings and pink tennis shoes, no makeup. Now he presented as a female - in clothing only; he sat at a table splay legged and looked very connected to his smart phone and kind of depressed. I guess I am writing this because if I am out I am fully enveloped in trying to appear and act feminine. I know others have been in similar situations. He just looked so bewildered but I thought if I approached for polite conversation it might be uncomfortable.
So what do you think might have been an appropriate thing to do or say - I was stymied, maybe if I were dressed it might not been as awkward ………………………………..Debra