Do I lose him?

[jentay1367]

Well except that actually that's exactly what you did just say. Still, not the first time and probably won't be the last.

There is so much ingrained misogyny in our own community that's not even recognized by the very people that actually perpetrate it. Freud would have a field day. It really does serve an old hard to shake trope about us and the irony is, it is instigated from within our own walls and serves to validate it amongst our detractors.