I have an apartment in a city an hour or so from our home that I stay in for work sometimes. My wife knows I crossdress but I don’t dress around her, so the apartment works well for my job and as a respite for CDing. She had appointments in the city this week and stayed with me in the apartment. My dresses and such are fully on display in the closet but she never mentions them. I was called in early to work and she texted me several hours later asking if she could borrow my lavender blouse because it was a bit chill outside for her clothes. I responded enthusiastically and immediately that I love sharing with her. It feels like a kind of acceptance.