As some of you may remember that a couple months ago I came out to my wife as being possibly bigender or trans. She was very supportive and even read up on what I had said to be “in the know”. She’s very VERY pro lgbt, and knows that I like to wear nail polish 24/7 on my toes, and occasionally pantyhose. Here’s my question...
Since I opened up to her, I experienced a little buyers remorse in telling her, due to a very hectic and stressful month with non related family stuff. Now that things have settled down, I’m starting to feel more feminine again and want to do something to take the next step. I’m just not sure what is reasonable. Wearing panties? She’s seen me wearing pantyhose, should I start there again and then build up? Should I ask to go to a drag bar in my normal attire so she knows it’s still on my mind?

Any suggestions would be appreciated.