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    Submissive feelings ?

    Do you equate being somewhat submissive with crossdressing ?
    Or feel more sub when dressed
    Just curious ?
    Does your outlook change
    Are you almost a different person ?

    JAS

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    No never.
    Why would you be a different person?
    Its not about sex for me so I would guess dressing for you is about sex?

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    Perhaps bad choice of words
    It is not really a sexual feeling for me
    But I feel different when dressed
    more freedom to be me
    Calmer quieter more relaxed
    Not sure how to describe it accurately

    JAS

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    Less aggressive maybe?
    Too much mascara is almost enough.

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    I know what you saying Jean and there are a lot of CDs just like you .
    Pretty common in the CD world actually.

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    Oh hell no! In fact I’m so the opposite! Being dressed, and especially in drag, I am much more outgoing, brassy, and confident.

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    I'm still the same person, just in different clothes.

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    Only during "playtime"

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    I am still me, but I do try to be less pushy and more lady like when out dressed.

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    Jean Ann,
    Not submissive but calmer , even tempered hopefully a better person .

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    Perhaps these " less aggressive " more cooperative
    qualities are always there , but dressing makes they
    easier more available for expression .
    While dressing is not a sexual thing per sa
    There is that component , dressing can make me feel
    Sensual ,attractive sexy !
    Many
    GGs have told me nice clothes give them those
    feelings



    JAS

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    One of the things I love about going out dressed. I DO feel more submissive. I spend my life as a guy making all the decisions, being the one in charge, always being the one who takes the initiative. When I go out dressed I feel more submissive. I let others take charge and decide things. I am a totally different person.

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    Dressing is an avenue for me to feel complete and an outlet to let me express who I am. If I dress for a couple of days I feel things more with emotions. A touch, when my wife brings me flowers and that I can appreciate what I have and not always be striving for more.
    I do not feel submissive nor do I look at my wife as being submissive. I am more nurturing and my wife loves the foot rubs or that I will listen to her problems without interrupting with a solution and just let her express her feelings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Teresa View Post
    calmer , even tempered hopefully a better person .
    I think Teresa has made some good points here, after I came out to my wife she described me this way. She also said I was a nicer person.
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    Avoiding detail I have a very fun relationship and I’m also very open and enjoy being submissive. It terms of crossdressing it MAY of had this attached to it but it’s certainly not why I do it. So I agree (sort of)

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    Yeppers.

    Him: large and in charge. A Military man with unquestioned authority. The same in social circles and family life. Not an overbearing dictator by any means, but no one, and I mean no one does not move when he says "jump".

    Me: submissive, but not terminally so. I still retain my independence, but I rarely like to make decisions that regard others or impose my will on other people; unless it is necessary.

    But I am more transgendered and not a man in a dress.

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    Not almost. Definitely different. One masculine, the other one feminine.

    That submissive thing you’re talking about is more of a personal desire that you’re allowing yourself to express (or project) through your dressing. That’s on you.
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    I am a very submissive person and being dressed just allows me to take it a step further.
    I enjoy pleasing my date and have him take control.
    I find it enjoyable when he chooses which outfit I wear for the night when we have a date.
    Letting him be boss makes me feel more feminine and wanted as a woman.

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    Yes Jean I feel the same way.

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    Like Teresa and Crissy, I am much calmer. But otherwise about the same when dressed. Less aggressive, but not submissive = assertive. Definitely a change that is more comfortable than in masculine mode. Feminine? Feminine, to me, is a really big word that includes a huge variety of highly variable behavior traits that are hard to separate and collect under a single concept. To me, feminine and masculine are very complex concepts that are really hard to define. Way too many varieties. So, for me, it is better to look at single behavior traits that we associate with each of these two gender forms. The total gender forms are hard to define, but you know them when you see them because your brain integrates all that you see into a single, non-verbal image that is recognized as being one or the other or something in between.

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    I would be very submissive if that would make my wife accepting. But I wish we could just be girlfriends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Majella St Gerard View Post
    Only during "playtime"
    Most definitely during "playtime".
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    No. I find becoming Sherry to be exciting, stimulating, and enervating!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    I have the same inner feelings en femme or my male self. Frankly, I hate it when I see women defer to the husbands/boyfriends or social/business acquaintances. I also hate it when some guy seems to demand it in his relationship with a woman. I've told the women in my family not to take crap off anyone, male or female. Their opinions and efforts are just as valuable as any man's opinion or effort. I suggest you all have a conversation with your wives, daughters and other women in your families. And, make sure your relationship is not injurious to your young daughters and granddaughters.

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    Playtime? Yes.
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