Do you equate being somewhat submissive with crossdressing ?
Or feel more sub when dressed
Just curious ?
Does your outlook change
Are you almost a different person ?
JAS
Do you equate being somewhat submissive with crossdressing ?
Or feel more sub when dressed
Just curious ?
Does your outlook change
Are you almost a different person ?
JAS
No never.
Why would you be a different person?
Its not about sex for me so I would guess dressing for you is about sex?
Perhaps bad choice of words
It is not really a sexual feeling for me
But I feel different when dressed
more freedom to be me
Calmer quieter more relaxed
Not sure how to describe it accurately
JAS
Less aggressive maybe?
Too much mascara is almost enough.
Contact me on MeWe mewe.com/i/maceyg
I know what you saying Jean and there are a lot of CDs just like you .
Pretty common in the CD world actually.
Oh hell no! In fact I’m so the opposite! Being dressed, and especially in drag, I am much more outgoing, brassy, and confident.
I'm still the same person, just in different clothes.
I am still me, but I do try to be less pushy and more lady like when out dressed.
Perhaps these " less aggressive " more cooperative
qualities are always there , but dressing makes they
easier more available for expression .
While dressing is not a sexual thing per sa
There is that component , dressing can make me feel
Sensual ,attractive sexy !
Many
GGs have told me nice clothes give them those
feelings
JAS
Dressing is an avenue for me to feel complete and an outlet to let me express who I am. If I dress for a couple of days I feel things more with emotions. A touch, when my wife brings me flowers and that I can appreciate what I have and not always be striving for more.
I do not feel submissive nor do I look at my wife as being submissive. I am more nurturing and my wife loves the foot rubs or that I will listen to her problems without interrupting with a solution and just let her express her feelings.
No. I find becoming Sherry to be exciting, stimulating, and enervating!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Jean Ann,
Not submissive but calmer , even tempered hopefully a better person .
I had the same response from a girlfriend. Once she got over the shock of discovering me in her bra and panties, and I began underdressing, she said she liked how Chrissie was so sweet and easy to be with. She said that was what attracted her to me in the first place, and now it was more than ever. Our sex changed, too...soft, gentle, very hot (and I would say she led the way).
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I actually felt more submissive when i avoided clothes that might upset the wife. I feel much less submissive now that the norm has been for me to wear more what i want around the house. That makes life much more calm in itself.
I don't feel the least bit dominant now, but the relationship seems to be much more equal.
One of the things I love about going out dressed. I DO feel more submissive. I spend my life as a guy making all the decisions, being the one in charge, always being the one who takes the initiative. When I go out dressed I feel more submissive. I let others take charge and decide things. I am a totally different person.
Avoiding detail I have a very fun relationship and I’m also very open and enjoy being submissive. It terms of crossdressing it MAY of had this attached to it but it’s certainly not why I do it. So I agree (sort of)
Yeppers.
Him: large and in charge. A Military man with unquestioned authority. The same in social circles and family life. Not an overbearing dictator by any means, but no one, and I mean no one does not move when he says "jump".
Me: submissive, but not terminally so. I still retain my independence, but I rarely like to make decisions that regard others or impose my will on other people; unless it is necessary.
But I am more transgendered and not a man in a dress.
Not almost. Definitely different. One masculine, the other one feminine.
That submissive thing you’re talking about is more of a personal desire that you’re allowing yourself to express (or project) through your dressing. That’s on you.
When haters hate, I celebrate!
I am a very submissive person and being dressed just allows me to take it a step further.
I enjoy pleasing my date and have him take control.
I find it enjoyable when he chooses which outfit I wear for the night when we have a date.
Letting him be boss makes me feel more feminine and wanted as a woman.
It actually varies with me
Sometimes feel very submissive docile
the old stereotype of how women should be
Quiter more calm agreeable cooperative
At other times a strong confident assertive
Woman . Ready to take on the world
And looking Fabulous (to me ) while doing it
JAS
I wouldn't consider myself submissive or dominant. I am just private and introverted. I sometimes feel like I am submissive, but I am more of the romantic type. Being loved and accepted, and having someone show me that in both actions and physical touches, etcetera and reciprocating is the thing I like.
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