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    First, I never try to hide my girly purchases stuff under other stuff I'm buying. That may be a sign to any other shoppers who see you doing it that the pretties are actually for you.

    Second, at a clothing 'rack', and more often in the check out line, I will hold the garment up a bit as if inspecting it for defects, letting all see me do it. I figger they will think that my purchase is actually for a female and not for me. If a female is behind me in line, I may turn to her and ask something like " do you think it's pretty or do you think she'll like it?" I believe doing these things disarms those who would wonder.

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    It doesnt bother me, but then, I take precautions.
    ALWAYS plan for the worst, then you can be pleasantly surprised if something else happens!

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    I prefer to deal with women but never go out of my way to do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiwi Primrose View Post
    I prefer to deal with women but never go out of my way to do it.
    I am the same as Kiwi.

    I prefer but it is all in my head and not in my actions

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    I don’t avoid contact with others, but others can avoid contact with me if they wish. It’s a free country.
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    I'm still relatively new at going out. Ive been out in the evening many times now, but I've only 'day walked' twice. So I avoid everyone lol.
    I'm making progress, though.

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    I have to admit, the only time I went out solo I avoided men that were in the stores. But at a gay club I will sit and talk to men - no problem.
    "You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder

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    I agree with roberta, how a GG typically will smirk at you and a GM will scowl at you. So if a choice between a GM and GG cashier I tend to pick the GG cashier. I don't see it as avoiding men but more as preferring women. But I do the same in male mode too...

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    Both of us wear dresses, I love to see her in a dress as much as I like to see myself in a mirror in one lol.

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    I am cautious but wide open to male or female! I will talk to anyone who talks to me! There really is not much difference! Both sexes can be accepting or prejudice! Just go with the flow and be yourself! Hugs Lana Mae
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    Would rather not deal with most men while out.

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    I have never feared shopping for women's clothes including bras, panties, camis or dresses when in a store with both male and female cashiers.

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    Depends on the situation and guy. I will avoid a particularly obnoxious and drunk guy, but will gladly engaged an affable character. No sense in getting anyone dander up, but why act stuck up either?

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    I will admit I avoid contact with men while undressed...
    When haters hate, I celebrate!

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    I avoid contact with EVERYBODY when I'm dressed in girl clothes. No reason to make them uncomfortable; I'm not a front line warrior out to make sure people get used to seeing men in women's clothing.
    Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
    There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    I do not avoid men when I am dressed, but men sometimes avoid me. On the other hand, I have had some men ask me some genuine and respectful questions about my dress or my heels, which I answer just as respectfully. Those feel like teachable moments to me. In the casino, I've had a few normal conversations about my clothes, but about other things too, from men once they realize I'm just a regular person, not fitting their usual (negative) image of a crossdresser. That feels like acceptance.

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    I try to avoid eye contact, but don't run to the other side of the street, when I see a man coming towards me. Unless it's a bigger group of men. In cases like that I prefer getting out of their way, because I was bullied once in the past by a group off drunk men and I was really scared. I still get the remarks or an occasional whistle when passing men on the street, especially during the night. And I don't pass as woman, so it's a ridicule for sure.

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