And does it affect at all who is in charge and or makes most of the decisions in your relationship ? In other words have you given up some power in the relationship by not wearing pants all the time ?
So How many Dresses do you probably Own and How many Dresses does she Own and what are her thoughts on this ?
Do you own too many ? How many dresses would she like to limit you to ?
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Do I own too many dresses? Yes, 162 to be exact, although my wife has no knowledge that I have even one. In a strong "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" marriage we do not discuss my desire to wear women's clothing. I doubt she knows the extent of my wardrobe. Obviously, she would like to limit my dresses and anything else en femme to zero.
Until recently she has not routinely worn dresses. She had abdominal surgery recently and has started wearing the dresses she had already owned and has bought many more. It is very nice to see her in pretty casual dresses.
My wife and I share power in our marriage. Any decisions are made mutually. Even the fact our marriage is "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" is based on a mutual understanding. Even on this forum I see threads and comments suggesting even dominance by the husband when en femme.... a "take it or leave it" attitude. And on the other extreme there are wives patrolling the house looking for any vestige of female attire to expunge from their marriage.
Ha! I own far more dresses (maybe 30+, haven't counted) than my wife, not that I ever get to wear them. She has a couple nice ones she wears for holiday gatherings, the rest are like potato sacks. The only real power issue is imposed DADT, which is a step up from search and destroy.
Technically, neither of us do. Wifey and I have been together almost 22 years and during that time I have seen her in a dress or skirt less than ten times. It's been about 6 years since the last time she had one on. As for me, I have been taking my dressing very slowly with my wife and I have not approached the subject of skirts and dress yet. Therefore, I don't own those items,yet.
As to who wears the pants in the house, our relationship is 50/50. Although I do believe in the phrase "Happy wife, happy life."
She has more than me. Mine have to be stashed away. But she does wear nothing but dresses when it's not too cold out.
But each of mine probably are way more important to me than hers are to her.
I currently have 6, probably have purged about that many over the decades, some because I had too many to conceal when moving, some because I got tired of them, but they all served with honor. She has dozens.
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Ha ha ha. Is there such a thing as "too many dresses"!!
I have 30+. Tops and skirts to many to count and lingerie sets, probably more than Victoria Secrets.....!!!
I agree with Robin, a very happy lady on a beach in Jamaica told that saying to me and my wife 10years ago and it's true. If she is happy, life is happy lol.
But we are a couple and all decisions are made together.
But she might limit me if I keep buying shoes, especially if she likes them and I don't get her a pair in her size too!!
I think I'm up to 50+ pairs now!!
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I don't think she owns any dresses. Her style is very feminine boho chic, but no dresses. So, yes, I have more than her and a few of them she picked out for me
She's 'in charge' of the areas she's good at, I'm 'in charge' of the areas I'm good at.
We have a limit on how many dresses I can have. It's a small house so we're both limited in that way :P
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Honestly I probably do own more dresses than my wife if you go by who picked them out for whom. We wear the same size range so we share a lot of things. But I can say and my wife would agree that she is not a "girly girl" and never has been, but I am.Most of the time when we go out dancing I will wear a dress but she will be wearing jeans.
As far as decisions, well I am sure I have said this before. Marriage is a partnership, neither one of us is in charge, we are in it together. Both of us are smart, strong willed, love to argue, and are capable of blind rage when cornered. But we have managed to keep it together for a quarter century, raised a family, both of us learning and growing as a couple and as individuals.
How many is too many? Well that's up to you to decide for yourself. But I used be be obsessed with the "secretary" look and had over 50 of a certain style of easy care button down blouses and almost as many skirts to go with them. That was too much as I never wore any of them for more than a few minutes at a time.
Honestly I have found that since fully coming out to my wife i don't obsess over clothes so much anymore because now if I want to wear a dress I wear a dress. So anymore I try to only buy clothes that I will actually wear someplace.
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My wife owns none which makes me sad.
I have about 250 which she doesn't know about.
I'm hopping on getting it down to 50 but so far I cant get myself to do it.
"This is ME" I am not CRAZY, I'm just a GUY who likes dresses!
Since allot of men dress up in woman's clothing that makes it a manly thing to do!
Much more fun than fishing.
I do construction like house building and I love CD-ing, what's the difference?
I've got a handful of dresses. She has a couple of closets full of really nice stuff. She's always dressed well. My stuff is mostly casual, hers is everything from casual to semi-formal.
I have about 30 dresses, I know my wife has more, but I wear mine more often.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
Sorry, secondary thought came to. My wife has lots of dresses, probably similar if not more than me. But the best part is that we are similar sizes, so whats mine is hers and whats hers is hers
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My wife and I pretty much equals in most ways, including number of dresses and skirts as well as household decision making.
She is somewhere between tolerant and accepting of my crossdressing but would rather I didn't so her preferred limit would be zero. That being said, she doesn't complain or try to stop me from adding to my wardrobe.
My wife of 34+ years was a tomboy! She mostly wore women's elastic waist pants! She owned maybe 2 skirts and maybe 2 dresses at any given time! Decisions were usually mutual but I reserved the ruling vote if necessary! ( I can only remember using it once!) (that's another story!) She passed away and if I did dress when with her, I would not have been with her long! She passed away 3 years ago! I can do whatever I want and have as many dresses as I want but only have about 10 or 12! Just my $0.02! Hugs Lana Mae
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I have 45 dresses and my wife has 0. Last time she wore a dress, she had to borrow it from me. She thinks I look prettier than her in a dress and makeup. I'm a DADT.
I have more dresses and skirts than my wife. She picks clothes out for me, that she says
she plans to borrow.
We went to a friends wedding, and she wore the dress I purchased the night before.
My wife has way more dresses than I do. She worked in a position and office where dresses/skirts and nylons were required. I have dresses, but only wear t-shirt dresses around the house. I had a closet full of dresses at one time. We both have given many away to friends and family. We both wear jeans or shorts most of the time.
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My wife has more, but we can wear the same size and share.
And we have a fairly equal relationship. Try to decide things together.
Jessica BF
The dresses are mine now. My wife doesn't wear them now and I took over the ones that suit me to add to my collection.
My wife and I are about equal. About 15 each. Mine are all dressy and fancy and hers are 1//2 dressy and 1/2 just throw on when she is hot.
Sara
My wife has considerably more dresses and shoes than I own. Like Macey "She's 'in charge' of the areas she's good at, I'm 'in charge' of the areas I'm good at." Most decisions are made 50-50 and we are typically on the same page. I do reserve a 51-49 percent majority on large financial decisions but rarely have to invoke it's use. Like many have said previously "Happy wife, Happy Life.
Jill
We talk over most everything so no power switch.
My wife does not like dresses, skirts, heels or hose. She is a shorts and tee shirt gal. She does has a few dresses and skirts.
I own more skirts and dresses than she does. I have three dresses and ten skirts. Many times she will borrow one of my skirts to wear to special occasions.
Sometimes I think we're the people keeping dressmakers in business.
I have about 20 dresses and my wife has 5. She only wears a dress for very formal occasions. Most of the time she wear slacks and plain tees.
Not married, no significant other. I have five now and am prepping for a photo shoot that i was invited to after the Halloween party so building my choices.
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