So interesting development. My SO was chatting with her sister, and it “slipped out” that I dressed. I was mortified when my SO told me. But now they want to go shopping and pick out something for me. I am not home, and won’t be for awhile. SO wants to do it the day before I get back, and surprise me. I guess I should be excited, but I’m nervous.
Jessica BF
What a lovely situation to be in, the envy of many on here.
I'm anxious to read what the outcome is when you get home. Please keep us posted.
Lord gal, relax and enjoy. They could be holding pichforks. It should be fine.
May we all be cursed with such problems. When do you figure this surprise will happen?
I am moving the family out to Missouri, and am already here settling in the new job. Will fly back July 4th to help pack up the house we sold. To save money i’m flying to a larger city, and my wife is driving over to pick me up. Her sister lives in that city. She is thinking to meet to the day before.
I know I should be excited, but it’s the first time someone other than my wife knows. All the worst case scenarios keep running through my mind. >.<
Yes, I think if my wife knew, then my sister in law heard, it'd be pretty much like putting billboards up and sending out a Rhonda Alert. And my in laws are up the hill from here, walking distance.
Anyhow, guess the rest of us will have to be excited about the surprise they're planning.
Jessica, I think I'd be angry if my wife let that slip. If your OK with it, good for you.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
My wife let it out to all her friends. Who I'm sure told their husbands. Didn't loose any friends because of it. Picked up several shopping partners. Over the years the women have enjoyed shopping with me. I have purchased women's clothes including lingerie while shopping with them. A lot of it is self assurance. I've loaned out clothes to some of our female friends.
BTW My SIL knows too. She went to hug me and slid her hand under my loose jacket. The look she gave me was WTF and then she slid her hand across my band. Didn't say anything but I had enough projection there was no question as we did the hug and our breasts met. Eventually we found out we wore the same size bras.
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The worst that can happen is that the rest of your family find out if your SO let it slip out whats to stop your SIL letting it slip out further? no problem if your parents and everybody else are onboard with this but what if? I have been lucky with friends and so forth knowing butits not the same every time. In a way if I was you I would brace myself for some seriously bad fall out.
may the gods go with you, I hope the future bodes well for you.
I started life a lost man now I am a found woman
I don't know that I agree with that thought.Originally Posted by Bobbi46
Another take might be that your SO wants you to be more open and share your desires.
Telling other people IMO is only going to make it easier for you to feel comfortable while dressed.
I would expect we would all want to live in a world where everyone knew and it wasn't something we feel we need to hide / keep in the closet...
Hmmm, they might ask you to do a fashion show for them. Love it.
Jessica based on your other posts, sounds like you have a great wife so I'm sure it will all work out !
I am known for my sense of humor and have teased my sister in law to death over the years ! If she found out she would have a field day and for sure she would want me to model several of her things !
May I ask how it could just have "slipped Out " ?
Did it have to do with the move and maybe all the extra dresses ?
Oh and is your SIL the same size as your wife ?
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WOW !! You are in a great situation. Two GG's to shop with is a dream come true for many and you are beautiful in your Avatar. All that should bode well for you. Who cares if your SIL tells others ? You have the most important person in your life on your side.....your wife. Have fun with all this and don't worry....100 years from now nobody will remember. lol
I usually HATE IT when someone buys something for Sherry! It never fits rite, doesn't look good on me, or is not my style!
I usually just smile, say thank u, and forget about it!.gif "Big Roll Eyes")
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Time will tell. Should have details next week. Could be fun. My wife said that SIL will surely want bright colors. ;-)
Jessica BF
Omg you should totally ask them to wait so that you can go along. 1) Their taste probably won’t match yours 2) if you’re there you can ask questions and get feedback from a couple of GGs so you can learn!
Here’s an update:
So the week my SO was going to head down and go shopping for me with her sister, my nephew had a seizure. He is fine, but that put a damper on the shopping.
Fast forward a couple of weeks, my SIL was visiting my SO (remember I am not in the same state right now). They got talking and the topic of Las Vegas and dressing services came up. My SIL became really excited and wants to plan a trip, get made up and then go to a fancy restaurant.
Then later she found out that there is a place where you can get “married” again but the bride and groom switch clothes. On a TV show? So that is now at the top of the list.
Has anyone heard of that? Do you know of a place?
Jessica BF
If your sister In low is cool with it then I say How sweet it is.
Angie
I can understand why you are nervous but what a great opportunity! Embrace it and enjoy!
Hugs, Carole
The shopping sounds great.
May i ask how it slipped out?
This happened with some friends of mine, after only telling one person, now its about 8 or 9...
One of the issues not mentioned in the comments so far is how cross dressing affects a wife. When we were having "The Talk" years ago she expressed the inability to have someone to share her feelings. I've always said a wife ends up being held captive with the secret too. Since the 'cat is out of the bag' your wife now has someone to share your mutual secret. It is probably somewhat of a relief for her. She now has a close confident to express any misgivings or issues that may arise.
I suspect the initial feelings will be something akin to apprehension. However, I think it will be a load off your mind and your wife's mind.
Thanks Connie. My SO bought some more makeup for us, so I plan to work on it more. I guess I need to work hard to be voted prettiest bride when we go. ;-)
Jessica BF
I know it's scary when people you haven't told start to find out. It probably feels like you have slightly lost some control over an important situation. That's probably part of the nervousness.
Stephanie is right though; your SO needs support outside of you and she wouldn't have told her sister if she didn't trust her to be supportive - and she was right; look at the results.
Don't overthink it - just enjoy
These are great perspectives. Thx.
My wife says that her sister got into “reading numbers”. I’m not sure what that means. She reads a persons numbers to get insights into them? Idk.
But anyways, she said that my numbers and my wife’s number connect in a way that means we have an exciting “intimate life”. She asked my wife if that was true, she said definitely “interesting and fun”. When my SIL asked again later what she meant, my wife sent her a link to xdress.com.
My SIL thought it was great. So my wife send her a picture of a dress she had bought me. They bonded. So now they are going to go shopping just together.
X-)
I panicked when I found out, but my wife assured me that it would stay between them. ( *biteslip* )
No one else knows about my other side, beside all you girls in the forum. So yeah, life’s developments. >.<
I agree that I think my wife needed another female to confide in. And she has been so supportive from the beginning and guess I should support her back.
So her sister is bigger, but has the same hair and eye color and complexion. (Maybe get a makeup tutorial from her instead of makeup counter? Lol) To big for my wife or I clothing wise. I’m not an overly large guy, 5’9-ish and 155lbs. I am usually in a size 12 or 14 dress.
But yeah... thanks for the replies. I get the idea that it’s fun to have two sisters wanting to shop for me. But the years for mental stigma in me makes it hard to just relax about it.
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Thanks for the compliment. I need to post and updates pic. Hm. My wife did a test and says I am good with “cool summer” colors. I guess that means I need to ditch the red dress and get one with cooler tones.
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