As you probably know , I have a holiday home up near Morecambe, I use it to relax and dress as our relationship is DADT, so she accepts me dressing alone at the holiday home, and I use it as a base to go into Blackpool. \\so its now nice weatherish, and nicer weather coming, so Im trying to negotiate who has the van when. Out of the blue , she said this is stupid, dress all you want while im there , i dont care anymore. To which I replied, "Its ok , no one will get hurt with the wearing of clothes". So there it is, I here now, she coming up Wednesday, and im staying dressed. Let see how it goes.