I'm sure most of you recall my stories of how my sister in law has kindly met me for coffee and even gone furniture shopping with me as Teresa . Our greatest fear was my wife would find out and go ballistic . SMy wife has now taken to making catch up phone calls with me basicaslly to keep me informed about the rest of the family . In her last call she calmly told me about a conversation with her sister about our outings , she admitted how should would have reacted at one time but is now happy her sister is giving me some support . I replied by telling her I appreciated she wouldn't do it unless she was comfortable with me , my wife then added at the moment she couldn't do that so I told the ball was totally in her court on that issue .

She ended by saying she would make inquiries about a divorce next February when the two years has elapsed , she said she would be happy to pay for it so we could then move on , who am I to argue , it was music to my ears but I'm still being cautious .