Last night my wife had some errands to do and thought it would be a good idea if I would drive her so it would save her time finding parking and just all around faster for her. Of coarse to convince me she offered that I dress up and we are both doing each other a favour. I agreed and I do enjoy do it.
When we were done and I stopped to put gas and I was wearing a summer dress with buttons on the front with almost half of them undone on the top and on the bottom, with biege fishnet stay-ups.
It was a hot day and it looked like a storm was coming and it was getting really windy, as soon as I got out of the car the wind instantly went up my dress feeling so amazing. While I was putting gas the warm wind was coming from under the car and my dress was wiping around. When I got in the car my wife made a comment that she was looking in the mirror and asked me if it was appropriate that I was out there with my skirt up and stay-ups and at times even my panties showing and I made no effort to pull the dress down. She asked if that's the way I want to be seen in public and that I should put into consideration that is that the way I want people to see crossdresses. That I'm like a representative and I should set an example and act like a women not like a tramp. A women would have tried to pull her dress down and been more ladylike but she feels like that's the attention I'm looking for.
She reminded me about a crossdresser we seen in a mall a few weeks back, we were sitting and we heard a clicking of heels and we looked over it was a women wearing very high heels that she couldn't walk in, I instantly noticed her very short skirt with her black stockings below the skirt. My wife whispered to me "where is that **** going dressed like that". As she got closer we realized she was a crossdresser and my wife asked me if I thought it was right if that's how crossdressers want to be respected and seen as. She felt it was very Inappropriate that this person had to present themselves this way in a mall, an even if she was going out clubbing from here is this how she wants to be seen.
I told my wife I have a lot of respect for this person for having the courage to go out and be the person they want to be, and I had to admit I only wish I would see women dressed like that more.Lol. I did admit with the stockings and garters showing and a black see though top with a pink bra on was alittle over the top but people have there own choice.
My wife only told me she is one to incourage freedom and seeing the big steps forward crossdressers are takeing and people are getting more excepting of it, but didn't believe dressing like that and acting like I did will help the cause. She believes that when I'm out in public that I should act responsible and dress decent and remember that I'm representing all crossdressing and everyone should do the same if we want to be treated properly. WOW! Am glad she's not with me when I drive with my skirt usally hiked up and showing my stocking to. Maybe she right, I should have acted more decent and tried to keep my skirt down.