So....this weekend I came out to a close friend. She was super supportive (as I expected....I’ve always known her to be the open minded type) and said she wanted to meet Xenia as soon as possible. We’ve got a tentative plan for me to drive up for a visit in a couple of weeks.

A potential issue is that I’m in New York and she’s in Ontario, so there’s a border crossing involved. I’d be heading northward in boy mode and probably coming back to the States in girl mode. Is it likely to cause problems at the border if I don’t match my passport photo? It would be inconvenient but not impossible to change back to drab before departing, if necessary.

I’d reckon that the agents have some training dealing with transfolk and wouldn’t be total Neanderthals about it, but nowadays you never know.

Anyone with firsthand experience?