These days I am surprised when the repair guy comes late but early? I did ask for a phone call prior but there was nothing so I went to change an hour before he was supposed to show up, but there he was walking to the door when I came in from the back yard. So, I greet him dressed with basically everything except the wig as I was working in the dirt. ( and the cutest garden hat ever) No comments, no laughing just a discussion about the problem. I do know that I will be the topic of conversation at lunch.
I think because we are getting out there more and more, people aren't that surprised to see us. They might not agree with what we are doing but they know we are not the only biological men dressing in a gender non conforming way. If I had turned tail and changed quickly we would both know that something was wrong. So just own it because its not 1970 and we are not doing anything wrong!
