I was in Winston-Salem again and made my usual pit stop! I got gas and a candy bar and a soda! The male clerk called me ma'am! OK, so he is representing the store, so maybe obligation! The young man who held the door open for me also called me ma'am! Now, I for one know I do not pass! It was the first time a man actually held the door open for Lana Mae! Score another first! It felt great but I do not pass! Just go about your business and own it and the world is yours! Other than work, there is nowhere that Harry can go that Lana Mae can't! Well,maybe the men's room but Lana Mae doesn't want to go there anyway! LOL Hugs Lana Mae