This thread is about a particular phenomenon I have witnessed repeatedly and I’m curious to hear from those who have either seen this or been this. It goes something like this: I’ll be hanging out at Hamburger Mary’s (you can substitute your local club/venue) and a crossdresser will come in alone. This is usually about 30 minutes to an hour before showtime. She’ll come in, order a drink, and find a table in the corner. She’ll usually stick around for 15-30 minutes, then bail and won’t be seen again the rest of the night. It’s a different girl every time, but the pattern is always the same.

I have to presume that somehow the experience didn’t live up to the expectation somehow. I can imagine a million different possible reasons for this and am not interested in speculation. I’m curious if you’ve: 1) ever witnessed something like this or is it unique to HM LB? And 2) if you were this person, am I right that somehow the experience didn’t meet expectations, and if so, how/why?