Talking to my wife yesterday I was whining about how exhausted I was, and how little it seemed like i had accomplished on the day with no work. For instance I used to watching the Tour de France daily in July, now I'm days behind the nightly recap show, and just don't seem to have the time or interest. She asked how much time I spent doing girly things, the answer was at least a few hours. "You're trying to live two lives at the same time," she told me, it's like burning the candle at both ends.