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    Silver Member Devi SM's Avatar
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    Finally electrolysis!

    I had my first electrolysis session.
    Some backup a guy me before so you can see if my experience would apply to you:

    Most of the hair in my face is white except in the middle of the chin and down about the neck, the upperlip is really black.
    I was plucking for almost 2 years the upper lip. I know outch! But it wasn't so bad. I did it in phases from up going down in several days, after 2 weeks I saw new hair growing again but thinner and now, it wasn't the same pain it discomfort to plucked it out.
    One month ago I was approved by health insurance for 2 weekly hours for a year.
    Last Monday I had the first session.
    Pic #1 same morning before electro, 1A in between electrolysis, third after with a healing cream, #2 next morning before shave and #3 after shaving.
    #5, 2 days after before 2nd session and after.

    Even thought it's been just two sessions and it's the beginning and if you see redness and swallowing now I feel more confident.
    It needs some concealer and makeup and I look better.
    Last week with wife we went to a Ulta beauty to buy some stuff for her hair and a cosmetologist did a skin match concealer and I like it.

    In a comment I post a pic of the "final product" with make up after 2 sessions.
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    The final product:
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    Devi,
    You look great and are very brave. I've been putting this off for too long, but I hear it's painful and I'm a wuss.
    How long between treatments and how long did your hair need to grow before having another session?
    Jinny

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    Thanks for your comments.

    You all are very nice and the reason for posting is to help others to get the courage and pursuit their happiness and real you...

    Quote Originally Posted by Luv2bGirly View Post
    Devi,
    You look great and are very brave. I've been putting this off for too long, but I hear it's painful and I'm a wuss.
    How long between treatments and how long did your hair need to grow before having another session?
    Before answer you I need to add something about pain.
    I was referred my PCP to this Trans wellnes center in Cathedral city, they have technicians, therapists and doctors there. It was a long drive from home to them to do the initial evaluation and submit for approval again to insurance. At the same time they prescribed a cream with lidocaine and other "caine" fornthe pain.
    They told me to use on the area to treat 45 minutes before and keep it wet, do not let it dry, so while driving to Murrieta, 35 minutes from home, I was reapplying cream to the upper lip.
    There was immediately a numbness sensation as when you go to the dentist.
    There was a tolerable while electricity is applied to "boil" the folicle.

    Before the second session I read the cream instructions and says apply o e hour before. I did it and keep wet and there was minimum pain.

    They approved 90 sessions. I was referred to a near home location.
    I'm not clear yet how many weeks but we'll be doing 2 weekly hours. If it's not fully done, I have to request more sessions.

    To start this has given en me an extra feeling of confide ce. Less concealer is needed and being there between just women, because is a salon with around 30 suites for differe.t hair, nails, etc treatments, I used the restroom for finish shaving and make up before leavi g to work as an Uber driver and everybody was nice. I say this because interactions with health workers is always nice but with women, no trans, that are there for different reasons could be difficult but everybody was nice.

    Pain is not a big deal. I recommend to everybody to do it.
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    This is me just now, Tuesday evening, 3 days later. This is bare face no makeup, just moisturizer after shaving this morning as usual. There's still a red dot where they were digging for that ingrown hair but otherwise ok, just a slight color difference. To be fair it was starting to get a few spots last night so I exfoliated big time and that sorted it out.
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    @macey I've been doing an hour a week since Nov, minus the holidays. Initially chest only, then mixed in the face from about Feb. We now do one week face, one week chest, alternating to let the skin rest in between. Focus is mostly the top lip and the "soul patch" just under the bottom lip which was quite dark but is now pretty much gone. Next will be the two triangles out from the corners of the lip. You can see them starting to darken already in that photo even though I shaved this morning.

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    Yay!! That's great Devi. It has made a big difference to me, I feel like I'm doing something positive for myself every week and it's worth the temporary discomfort. I wouldn't have thought that the upper lip area had such an effect but I don't worry so much about beard shadow any more. My next session is tomorrow.

    @jinny yes it hurts, but it's totally worth it. Take <your favorite brand of> painkillers beforehand.

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    Devi, thank you for the pictures-they’re very revealing. As I always say, every picture you post is better than the last. You’re well on the way to being your authentic self. I love following your progress.
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    An update at around 3 months of treatment, every Monday, 2 hours but two of those monday we skipped the session.
    Check by yourself.
    I'm happy because, even thought some dark shade can be seen, it's easy to achieve a nice natural make up with minimum products.
    A pic from today after shave, the areas treated are upper lip, around the mouth and under the mouth and some area of the chin others areas hasn't been touched yet) no make up, no filters, and from yesterday, some light make up.
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    Hi ladies,
    I hope I can keep their thread open up to the end of the treatment so others can see how it works.

    At the beginning I thought it would be faster. It could be but my health insurance allows just 6 months before approve another 6 and etc. So we're doing 2 hours weekly and began on first week of August. There had been a couple of weeks we have to skip so it's not been continuous (that's going to stretch more and delay the process).
    Yesterday I had a 2 hours session where she worked upperlip for 3rd time, and some area of the chin, leaving some weeks not touching the upper lip to let healing and hair grows again. Mostly the upperlip has been done one half one week, then the other half next weeek to allow it heals.

    I'm very happy because it has given me more confident and my make up now covers any trait of black hair there. In the rest of the face, hair is mostly whit so not dark spots that I even not use any make up.

    See attached pics and get your own conclusions.
    First is today, a day after, after shaving, the one with blue top is yesterday after treatment with make up, the light blue dress is last Friday after 2 weeks no treatment with light male.up.
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    HI Devi,
    I never heard of Insurance covering the electrolysis. I believe you are in the US. What Insurance do you have and what did you have to do to get the approval? Could you choose the electrologist?
    I am about 110 hours in on my face and 25 on a chest. After first few full clearances, I stopped taking Ibuprofen and can tolerate the pain without. My Insurance covers all the hormones and bloodwork but I never even looked at the coverage for electrolysis.
    Katya

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    P.S. I was told the national average is about 200 hours to clear facial hair completely.

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    At this point, my cheeks are clean. Some hair occasionally in side burns, upper lip has been recleared like 15 times and still more growing. Neck is the last major thing we are working on now.

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    Katya,
    I didn't know either that the insurance would cover it. I don't remember exactly how I knew. I think I was looking for a local electrologist and came for details about what health insurer cover and found it.
    My insurance is local. IEHP for inland empire health program. It's one of the options we can use when approved by Medical (medicine or Medicare from California)
    You need to be under some levels of poverty.
    I'm happy because I'd never had to pay a copayment or deductible for anything, includes medicine, exams, labs, surgeries, mental and physical therapy, etc.
    What I did need for the electro approval was the referral letter from my PCP and my therapist, that is an amazing guy and transgender as well, and to had been in HRT for at least a year.
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    The upper lip usually takes the longest to finish, the hair on the upper lip will keep coming and coming and coming. I had mine cleared about 25 times and I still have some hair there and some shadow (but my beard is an extreme one and my case isn't typical; still it finishes last for most.) Cheeks finish first and are very easy to do for both the operator and client.

    If one can do long and costly initial clearances of the whole beard upfront the job will finish faster. If time is of the essence and spending a lot of money upfront is not an issue it is the best way to go, but this is obviously not for everyone.
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    I had a strange and nice experience today where for the first time there was very little to do on the top lip and we were wondering what will we do today. Not so long ago the moustache area was so dense you can spend the entire hour on an area the size of a 1c coin and now we’re wondering what should we do next

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    Thanks for you comment Genifer.
    I just post at the beginning that I appreciate all comments but regarding to tell an electrologist with more than 20 years of experience, approved by the insurance company, how to do her job is not something I'd do. I just rest and trust in all said. In the past I had worse red bumps and the skin has healed.
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    Thanks vickie for your comment.
    Technician told me that the easiest part for me will be the upper lip, because I was doing plucking (which some people recommend me to stop it not do it) I was more tolerant with the pain and the follicles were weaker than other areas but it would take at least a year to finish the face with sessions if 2 hours weekly, so 104 hours but it eventually would need to redo some parts.

    We'll see. I'll try to keep all you posted of the progress.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Devi SM View Post
    Thanks vickie for your comment.
    Technician told me that the easiest part for me will be the upper lip, because I was doing plucking (which some people recommend me to stop it not do it) I was more tolerant with the pain and the follicles were weaker than other areas but it would take at least a year to finish the face with sessions if 2 hours weekly, so 104 hours but it eventually would need to redo some parts.

    We'll see.
    Indeed we shall. I defer to your tech's experience and knowledge, but I am here to tell you that the upper lip is unbelievably sensitive. Even with the strongest topical anesthetic preparation available, it was all I could do to get through that first round in that area. Good luck to you.
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    Another picture from today, before shaving, last session of two hours was 2 days ago.
    I'm happy that the dark shadow of dark roots or follicles is almost gone.....
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    Congrats, Devi. You've come a long way. I always said facial hair removal was job #1. And you've proven it. Way to go, girl!
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    Thanks for your comments Aunt Kelly, as you can see in the original post, she had worked just the upper lip, for my request. She worked one hour each side and told me that's "ping pong" leaving some hair a for next session so skin doesn't irritate too much.
    This coming Friday she will "end" with the upper lip and continue around the mouth, to the chin and under a toyal session of 2 hours. I'll post pics after that.
    I know, she told me, that for some people is needed several sessions, in my case, she said with 3 or 4 in the upper lip will be enought.
    Regarding pain, one of the reasons on my post is to clarify that did help had been plucking the upper lip and with the cream applied one hour before the pain is minimum.
    I know the past because last time she worked and are where I didn't applied the cream and the pain, even was bearable but really strong and longer.
    So far this is my experience.
    At the bottom of the day, for me worths because just with 2 session my confidence change. Have you heard about placebos and nocebos?
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    People vary a lot. I had my chest waxed once and it nearly killed me. Other people do it all the time. On the other hand I've had several 1 hour electrolysis sessions on my lip, no numbing cream, and I found that OK. Don't get me wrong; it's unpleasant and I'm damn glad when the session is over. But I go back every week, whereas I'll never wax my chest again. Anyway. My point is - people vary.

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    Ok, today third session. No upperlip but down and chin.
    I confirm my post that had being plucking the upperlip helped to make thinner hair regrow and tolerate more the pain.
    Today there were thick hairs and the pain was bigger. I found that while trying to do pictures I get distracted and forgot the pain.
    So here 3 pics.
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    Keep posting, Devi! Very informative! How long for the swelling and redness to go down?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Macey View Post
    Keep posting, Devi! Very informative! How long for the swelling and redness to go down?
    Macey, it's 7.30 PM. Session today ended at 11 am so 8 and a half hours after.
    The general redness dissapear around day 4 after but the second day is unnoticeable for most people that could see me without make up that's at night at home or some weekends.
    Judge by yourself.
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    I am lucky my hairs In beard area are thin and easily get clean with threading and I found that area smooth for 20 days time
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