Clairemarie Seems like we have a similar situation My wife was quite accepting and encouraging years ago at the beginning of our relationship. We would go to functions and a support group together but now 40 yrs later not at all. She finds it disgusting. I do have a storage place and do manage girl time but it is definitely DADT. It can be a bit frustrating and I am going to go to a counselor this week. I won't say depression but frustration certainly