I tend to put on dresses, skirts and tops because that is what is most comfortable to me. I think not of things like " am I valuable" or "Am I attractive or beautiful". It is all about comfort for me. Leggings, slacks, etc are to restrictive for me. I have almost quite wearing hose or pantie hose. The only thing that I wear for looks are my makeup products, nails and polish, and wigs. (Male pattern baldness creeping in on this 76 year old head).