I don’t get many chances to wear my forms, a wig, a skirt, and a feminine top. (I live in a DADT marriage.) But I do wear panties every day, have for over 39 years. In the cooler months I wear a cami and/or bra under my shirt most days. This underdressing is affirming to me. Even though I have to present male, I am constantly reminded that I am “not like other guys” and feminine. Even though I can’t outwardly wear gender-confirming clothes (out of the house), I can always wear pretty panties! Nancy
